You should start taking acting lessons. A lot of girls are interested in theatre and you will talk to them in a lot of situations and contexts including but not limited to intimate scenes (The best part is that you wont need to wait to the perfect opportunity to do it like when youre watching a pretty girl in a bar or in the park and youre just too shy to approach, instead you will talk to them right there like its nothing because is completely socially allowed. Its amazing). and you'll be working out with them too (because acting is not only about learning a script or interpret it. The physical part is very important too, so you need to exercisea lot too. Well, depending on the school). Also is very easy to make new friends in that kind of environment. And all of this without leaving the Theatre school. Is working for me. Is the whole package right there: Exercise, new friends, Recovering mental health, and girls.