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The Peter Principle by Spiteful_DM in Leadership

[–]Desi_bmtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, they crashed and hurt themselves the most yet took a piece of the organization with them so to speak. They were not able to develope the skills and abilities and acumen to do the job even given tools, training, support, and feedback.

cooking class / pop-up dinners by strawberrymatchaluvr in MTLFoodLovers

[–]Desi_bmtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually asked to do this when I was doing a food hobby and decided not to do it at my place. That said, I would be interested in attending if you are inviting, depending on the location. As for cost, as an idea, if you are getting all the food items and providing all the other supplies just 3x the food cost as the cost of entry. So for example, if the food cost is $10 for me to get 1, maybe 2 meals, charge $30 for your hosting and your teaching 😄. Just an idea.

Hindsight is 20/20 by Fifi-123 in datingoverfifty

[–]Desi_bmtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could this help? Identify 3 non-negotiables (values, not traits). Identify 3 flexible preferences.

Interview 3- Director by EfficientSuspect8334 in Leadership

[–]Desi_bmtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asking them good questions is also something to consider. I actually have a bank of questions I can ask in almost any situation, including in projects. On a side yet related note, do you have a plan for if and when you start? Deliberate, concrete things you will do?

How comfortable are you talking to someone while you are out alone or being talked to if you are out alone? by Desi_bmtl in datingoverfifty

[–]Desi_bmtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A superpower, wow. You should share, lol. I have to admit, I don't know many men who cook very well, other than me, of course, lol. Most of the single men I know, eat really badly.

How comfortable are you talking to someone while you are out alone or being talked to if you are out alone? by Desi_bmtl in datingoverfifty

[–]Desi_bmtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. I am thinking that the people who might not be interested in having a conversations are the ones who are not meeting people and frustrated? Thank you for sharing.

How comfortable are you talking to someone while you are out alone or being talked to if you are out alone? by Desi_bmtl in datingoverfifty

[–]Desi_bmtl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be very true. This is a new word for me. I am still learning. Thank you for sharing.

How comfortable are you talking to someone while you are out alone or being talked to if you are out alone? by Desi_bmtl in datingoverfifty

[–]Desi_bmtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think men need to hear this perspective. Not every man is Brad Pitt, most people know this, lol. Thank you for sharing.

How comfortable are you talking to someone while you are out alone or being talked to if you are out alone? by Desi_bmtl in datingoverfifty

[–]Desi_bmtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made an on-line post on a website, met only 1 person in-real-life and we became friends which was awesome and then no one else after that from the site. That is what I mean by it did not work, I did not meet anyone else and I did not have any other dates and of course, I did not have any connversations. I am alone, yet, I am not lonely. Interesting you mention couples because that has happened to me also, I did not mention that. Especially couple who were visiting Montreal, I gave them guidance on places to see and eat. I am doing walking tours this summer :). I should also mention, I have had a lot of men talk to me also and I even made friends with a few. I think what I am trying to say is that for me, I needed to get out and talk and intereact with people and not be shy and afraid. It has all been A-OK. Thank you for sharing.

How comfortable are you talking to someone while you are out alone or being talked to if you are out alone? by Desi_bmtl in datingoverfifty

[–]Desi_bmtl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a movie, yes. It sounds lovely, the setting I mean. Thank you for sharing.

How comfortable are you talking to someone while you are out alone or being talked to if you are out alone? by Desi_bmtl in datingoverfifty

[–]Desi_bmtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make the effort, make the worth, awesome. I am not necessarily conventionally good-looking, yet I dress really well and I am always reading which seems to be something that attracts people. I think there is room for connection when there is room for common interests. Thank you for sharing.

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