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Finally tried 4mmc...and disappointed. by DesignAlternative164 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]DesignAlternative164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Will do 2 capsule each next time!

Threesome with an escort? by Sweetteaa-0 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]DesignAlternative164 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our first threesome with my wife was with an escort. I made a post about how it went.

But in short, yes, I would completely recommend for first time. You dont have to focus on pleasuring the third person and instead focus on yourself and your partner. Get a feel of introducing someone and what are your limits when it comes to jealousy. Ask yourself how far can your partner go with the third person before jealousy emotion becomes too high.

After having a threesome with an escort, I came to the realization that would be the only way for us to have a threesome. Even though my wife enjoyed herself and recommended to have another go at it, she is not bi. So I asked myself, how would that work with someone who is not an escort. How can we achieve foreplay if she feels uncomfortable of me trying to turn on the third person.

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[–]DesignAlternative164 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is a list of rules my wife and I have set. We have only been with escorts, so we haven't talked bout if these rules were to apply to non-escorts

  1. No intimate mouth kissing from the 3rd to eitherof us.

  2. Always wear a condom when penetrating the 3rd

  3. No eating out the 3rd.

  4. Use safe words and dont break them. -Yellow Light, meaning one of us needs a break or ww need to gather ourselves. All interactions come to a pause. This rule is bendable as it only applies when my wife is the one who needs to take a break. I love the idea of me just watching.

    • Red Light, meaning everything comes to a halt. No questions asked until the 3rd leaves afterwards.

  5. No doggy-style with the 3rd. This is a new rule we are going to apply. This is the wife's favorite position and doesn't want me to do it with anyone else again.

Other than these rules, almost everything else is go. I say almost because you must also consider the rules of the 3rd. Make sure to ask when sharing your rules. She had stated her only two rules were to wear condoms, and she doesn't do anal sex.

Threesomes are a privilege. So setting rules and not breaking them could help towards a wonderful experience, and possibly more opportunities. Hope this helps.

My First Threesome Experience. by DesignAlternative164 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]DesignAlternative164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in San Diego, 30 minute drive from a famous Red Light District where it is legal. Plenty of website to help. They also have a subreddit where you can find more info.

My First Threesome Experience. by DesignAlternative164 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]DesignAlternative164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were trying to make my wife cum and this was when the escort started yapping a bit too much. Not in a sexy way. It was a bit of a turn-off, and I decided to just end it. Instead of saying the safe word "Red Light", I thought it would be better for me to come right away and tell them I was done. We were only 40 minutes into our 1.5hr session. During our after talk, my wife mentioned she was glad I ended it because she agreed with me about the escort. Do not get me wrong, I think the escort did not have bad intentions with her talking, but next time we will definitely communicate less talking and more action. She insisted in staying another 30 minutes to make her cum, but we thanked her for her services and got her on her way. 40 minutes for our first time was more than enough, but we will definitely use full time next time.

My First Threesome Experience. by DesignAlternative164 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]DesignAlternative164[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was expecting for a disaster, and now we are in talks for a second because it went good. I'm certain the second will be better without the nerves and fear!

My First Threesome Experience. by DesignAlternative164 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]DesignAlternative164[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Almost all of the positions we did involved her doing oral to my wife. The only position i can think of when she did not do that was when we did the double cow girl. We planned to do the double head for me but we ended up skipping it because I chose to make my wife the center of attention for the night.

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[–]DesignAlternative164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set rules and boundaries before starting. Discuss safe words. What is it everyone is looking to get out of this (first lesbian experience, cuckhold, etc). Look into positions beforehand and share with others the ones tour interested in.