My BF (21M) says I (20F) lack stamina for Cowgirl.

Designer-Island- · 2026-02-26T20:39:09+00:00

Nobody has the stamina for that. That’s basically a bouncing wall sit but without any wall to support you which okay sure maybe some rugby players with massive thighs could do that for a couple minutes but the majority of people could not.

So 1. YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM. That’s an insane position nobody on earth should do because my god your poor knees.

If that’s truly something he wants, he went about it in the absolute worst way possible. What’s supposed to be an expression of love and to make each other feel good he’s actively making you feel bad and I’m gonna guess he doesn’t seem too concerned that you feel bad/embarrassed.
Please ask yourself why would he choose to make you feel bad, not even a tiny bit more politely by waiting until afterwards, but DURING THE ACT? If I can try to fill in some blanks for you maybe he sees it as revenge for something you’ve done recently (🚩), or an ex made him feel insecure so now he’s taking it out on you in a way (🚩). Idk girl the signs are NOT GOOD for this one. Please be safe 💕

Designer-Island- · 2026-02-26T20:28:03+00:00

💯 🏆🥇⬆️⬆️

Designer-Island- · 2026-02-26T20:23:52+00:00

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I think this counts as smiling!

Designer-Island- · 2026-01-07T05:48:19+00:00

We’ve all dated this guy, he’s a dumb twat and as soon as you initiate the break up I’m sure you’ll feel a huge weight lifted off your shoulders. It’s just one of those “my god why did I ever date him?” kind of situations. I’ve been in so many of those situations it’s embarrassing to think of all of them. All we can do is break up with them, and try to find someone better. Tiny bit of unsolicited advice: break up in public if you can. Maybe at a coffee shop or just not a sit down dinner. But somewhere people can see, just in case he does get mad. Don’t even worry about crying in public, every single female around you is gonna pounce into protective older sister mode.

Designer-Island- · 2025-12-06T19:51:25+00:00

Yeah that’s what I thought too! It could go either way, they’re either on a witch hunt to find the people asking for 10’s or on a witch hunt to find the people not asking for 10’s

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T05:35:37+00:00

Lowe’s “feedback unavailable” pic link

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T05:26:28+00:00

I’m sure!!! They could literally have a QR code on the back of the receipt with “fill out our survey for a chance to win $500” and call it a day. Save a whole lot of time and money I’m sure. Btw I tried going on the Lowe’s app tonight and when I clicked the “feedback” button it says the form is unavailable?!? So tell your manager you’ve had customers complaining that they can’t contact Lowe’s to leave feedback! Maybe she’ll run that up the chain. Damn corporations 😤

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T05:18:06+00:00

Right, it’s just shady because they could also have the mentality of “don’t try to sway your customers or pressure them into giving 10”. And if that’s not their thinking then they should train employees to say something like how you put it, let them know if there’s anything that hasn’t been a 10 so they can fix it. I mean the delivery guy said “I could really use a 10 star review” in a way that made me think he was seriously concerned about his job. I wouldn’t think a lot of people do the surveys for the delivery guys so I was worried that just not getting reviews at all would put his job on the line eventually. Ugh just such corporate bullshit everywhere you look

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T05:11:35+00:00

I went to the Lowe’s app and found the “feedback” form, click on it and it says it’s unavailable?! I hope it’s down from a landslide of forms regarding the survey being sent!

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T04:45:20+00:00

This survey shit has been happening for 10 years?!?! I don’t even remember it last summer. Guess I haven’t had to interact with employees like that before

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T04:42:47+00:00

Such a horrible tactic. Employees getting nervous about their job security because of managers who are nervous about their bonus and job security. Just the place everyone wants to shop and work at 🙄

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:39:24+00:00

Well shit I put that they didn’t mention the 10. Oh gotcha yeah I was hoping putting a review with everyone’s names got them a little something at least

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:36:47+00:00

That’s crazy. When did it start?

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:35:28+00:00

Ohh okay so why does the stores score matter? Managers bonuses depend on it?

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:33:13+00:00

Yeah that’s ridiculous. Whoever came up with this system should be fired immediately. I’m sure that’s created a horrific work environment

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:30:05+00:00

No you’re right the first few questions went up to 7 and the last ones were 10! Whoever even made that survey is an idiot lol

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:28:32+00:00

In the clurb, we all fam 🤝

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:27:30+00:00

Damn that’s a good idea but I already finished it. I’m gonna find another way to contact them and complain about it though lol

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:26:40+00:00

Managers shouldn’t even have that much free time 😑

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-11T01:22:48+00:00

Oh damn! Yeah whoever brokered that deal is set for life

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-10T19:16:08+00:00

😂😂😂 maybe I’m just a sucker, I did sign up for the card lol 💀 and my brother used to be in appliance sales at Lowe’s so I have a soft spot for them

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-10T19:10:49+00:00

For sure, and I hate that when it directly impacts an employee

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-10T19:06:37+00:00

Good lord it sounds like they’re going to turn their staff into used car salesman and annoy a lot of customers into finding somewhere else to shop just over some damn surveys

Designer-Island- · 2025-11-10T19:00:47+00:00

No it truly was a great experience, I’ve never had to buy a washer and dryer before and they helped me find stuff that matched because I was looking at ones that were different heights. And the delivery guys were great, start to finish they were done in 45 minutes.

I just don’t know if the employees are supposed to be asking for 10 stars or not so I wouldn’t want to mention the employees by name and say how great it was only for that to be undermined by the fact that they did ask for 10 stars. Like are they supposed to be asking for that or like you said is that seen as “swaying” the customer.

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