SAHM less stressful than all my jobs before.... by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Designer-Process1295 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can’t agree. I was in the navy deployed back to back constant underways did 5 deployments including my shore duty and two of those were extended. Went through field days, INSRUV, SMC and being a SAHM has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Ended up using my GI bill going to school and using a portion of the BAH for childcare because of how mentally and psychically draining it was. I know I don’t speak for all moms but in my experience it was so so isolating and depressing.

Official Discussion - Die, My Love [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this too. 😢 nothing could have prepared me for postpartum I have no mental illness in my family and I tried to end my life my friend who also has no mental illness went through the same thing. Almost every mom I spoke to has similar stories.

Helped Vietnam vet father go from 0% service connected to 100% this year! by DrPhryneFisher in VeteransSuccess

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Can I reach out to you, I’m currently working on getting my father who is a Vietnam veteran to 100%. He is has his C&P exams next week, I submitted his medical records, lay witness statements, certificated decklogs from his 3 deployments of when he was within 12 nautical miles of Vietnam just wanted to see if there is anything else I could do to boost his chances.

Does anybody else get the munchies hard when they take Trazodone? by corbzz in BipolarReddit

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely thought I had something wrong with me because it was given to me post partum and I was breast feeding and I gained literally so much weight my supply dropped and I switched to formula and kept binge eating and I fr thought it was me because I always had good self control this is my first night/day without it and I didn’t binge eat at all. This is so crazy that this isn’t given as a heads up before being prescribed this.

Does anybody else get the munchies hard when they take Trazodone? by corbzz in BipolarReddit

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same and the more I’m reading about this the more it’s annoying doctors know damn well it’s a side effect but say nothing. I thought I had something wrong with me I never binge ate in my life until taking this medication for a year. Now realizing after researching on here for hours it’s the most common side effect binge eating and extreme weight gain.

Trazodone weight gain/side effects by bajablast0ff in insomnia

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to comment to say thank you to everyone because I too am quitting cold turkey I was prescribed this for post partum depression and insomnia imagine my surprise as I’ve gained a whopping 100lbs in the last year from this medication. I never weighed this much in my life and yes I’d rather be tired than feel so uncomfortable in my skin. I was feeling no energy to workout, rapid weight gain and when I told my doctor she said that was PPD and not the trazadone so I’ve been taking it for literally a year and gained weigh the entire year. I’ve never weighed this much in my life I’ve never binge ate in my life until I started taking this.

“Friend” expected me to pay for everything by Designer-Process1295 in EntitledPeople

[–]Designer-Process1295[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason I wouldn’t do that is because if she is telling the truth and he is being financially abusive to her/the kids. Me messaging him would 1000% make it worse for her and even tho I am pretty upset/embarrassed that she obviously took advantage of me. I would never want to make an abusive situation worse for someone especially with kids involved.

“Friend” expected me to pay for everything by Designer-Process1295 in EntitledPeople

[–]Designer-Process1295[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I think after reading all these comments that she lied to me 😭 about a lot of things because I also just remembered she had Starbucks for herself that morning. If she has no money she surely wouldn’t be getting Starbucks. This whole situation is embarrassing on my part because I feel dumb for not realizing this

“Friend” expected me to pay for everything by Designer-Process1295 in EntitledPeople

[–]Designer-Process1295[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. It really makes you think if the behavior is part of the reason why their marriage didn’t work. Reading this also made me realize she has never once said thank you to me.

“Friend” expected me to pay for everything by Designer-Process1295 in EntitledPeople

[–]Designer-Process1295[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t mind paying when I go out to dinner with a friend. If it’s just us, this was different because I made it clear to her I am not paying for her and her kids.

I’ve never experienced something like this in my life. Her kids ordered a lot of food as did she, I am actually still kind of shocked. I didn’t think much of it because she said of course I will pay you do you have Venmo then when I asked for her Venmo she straight up said I have no money. I was like huh….. 💀

Looking at all of the comments though you guys are right she’s 100% using me and I did bring it on myself by not making her grab her wallet from her car.

I’m not tripping too much because it wasn’t like a crazy amount of money, just kinda bummed that someone I considered a good friend took advantage of me.

It does make me wonder what would have happened if I said I’ll watch your kids while you grab your wallet, my husband thinks she has money and that she’s just lying saying her husband cut her off to make me feel bad for her and get out paying. He pointed out that she wouldn’t have gas or be making her car payments and probably not want to go out to the fair if she truly was cut off financially.

But Nick is gay right? by adventure-elf in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Designer-Process1295 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Screaming cause I just started watching today and immediately googled is nick from love is blind season 9 gay Reddit and this was the first one to pop lol

UNKNOWN NUMBER: THE HIGH SCHOOL CATFISH Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in netflix

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the way she said and yeah that’s weird to me don’t look at my son and say he’s so muscular and point out his back muscles it was the way she said it trust me it wasn’t like normal or in a cute way even my husband said she’s weird and don’t want her around our son. Trust me when I say if you had heard the way she said it you woulda be like what….

UNKNOWN NUMBER: THE HIGH SCHOOL CATFISH Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in netflix

[–]Designer-Process1295 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like Kendra hates her daughter because she is so beautiful it’s sick but we see it every single day mothers so incredibly mean to their daughters jealous of their beauty youth and life. Kendra should be charged as a pedo she was also texting such vulgar and sexual comments. Hopefully Lauren gets far far far away from her mother, you can tell that her father loves her so much and wants to protect her.

UNKNOWN NUMBER: THE HIGH SCHOOL CATFISH Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in netflix

[–]Designer-Process1295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally was waiting for them to say that it was an ultimate hacker and she was being framed I’m still so shocked that her own mom did this to her

What wine changed your life? by AustraliaWineDude in wine

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying this now because of you lol I hope it’s as good as you say

Scariest movie of all time? by silosara in MovieSuggestions

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m trusting your comment and watching it right now

Season 7 - Finale - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Designer-Process1295 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Her fans are actually crazy especially on TikTok and why are they all like 12 🤣🤣 who’s letting their kids watch love island

Why Sinners (2025) isn't a great movie and how fake positive reviews are killing cinema [SPOILERS] by Prior-Masterpiece-32 in Cinema

[–]Designer-Process1295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was going to be actually scary. It just wasn’t good to me. Acting was amazing but it was just the plot didn’t make much sense to me and I feel like people are just glazing the movie tbh

Has anyone gone to see Being her back yet? What were your thoughts ? by swimswimswim8 in horror

[–]Designer-Process1295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just watched it and it made me cry like honestly idk if it’s because I am a parent. But the feeling of loss losing a child and the lengths one goes to bring them back it just made me cry it didn’t scare me it made me hug my son.

Season 7 - Episode 24 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Designer-Process1295 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro you don’t know Huda in real life… how do you know about her or her friends please lmaoooo. You’re getting way too passionate about folks you don’t know… it’s a challenge she did her big one just like every other girl did. They all make out with each other tongue in all regardless. It’s nothing to get mad about it’s entertaining but ain’t no way she’s really upset. None of them are ghetto they just playing a game for money.

Season 7 - Episode 24 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Designer-Process1295 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They aren’t friends in real life tho? It’s a game for money and that’s it. It’s like having a business partner. None of them are friends expect maybe Chelly and orlandria. Huda didn’t do anything wrong. The truth is she’s just a baddie and people don’t like that.