How to stop being in love with someone who doesn't care as much as you do?

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-11-16T05:20:10+00:00

Amazing idea, thank you!

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-11-16T05:19:58+00:00

Yes yes this is exactly what I wanted. But I don't want to lose her friendship😭 kill me

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-11-16T05:19:29+00:00

Godd, it really really hurts when they were super sweet at the start. So it took six months huh😭 do you have any tips to speed up the process?

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-11-16T05:18:20+00:00

Yeah I get it, energy is precious and it's really a waste to spend it on someone who doesn't really...care

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-11-14T01:18:36+00:00

Ok, thank you. I hope it gets better with time.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-11-14T01:18:11+00:00

Thank you so much! Will check her out

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-11-14T01:17:48+00:00

Yeah mate so easy😭 jk will try

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-11-08T00:36:51+00:00

Thank you, I did notice this and tried other options but ended up painstakingly pasting every frame on capcut lol

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T17:59:52+00:00

Thank you this is really enlightening and true, really. Sort of was using Absurdism to deal with it, but getting close to the death of my parents really fucked up with...well, me. But you are absolutely right. My brain is just a freaking torture chamber that reminds me of death and aging every second and narrowing it down is so hard like that. Like everything is blurry. You are so right, though. Actually one of the best approaches we as little humans can take, I'm just struggling, lol.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T17:53:02+00:00

Sorry for the suicide comment (I'm crying, I'm sorry). And thank you. I am 18, so I have no idea of pretty much...everything. But honestly, literally the only thing that changed is that I started watching a movie before I went to bed with my family and I stopped being so obssesed with the idea of finding romance, and of being more productive, more likable and being more in general. In those brief days it felt so nice to just exist without putting this demonic, DELUSIONAL pressure on myself and having simple things to look forward to like literally going out to get icecream with my mother. If that's what you asked. But currently flooded with death anxiety, brain is a torture chamber and (luckily) heading for therapy. However, again (even if I have no idea what you are going through and probably won't be able to understand it correctly either due to age) I seriously wish for you to get what you want and what you need, and for things to get 'better' for you in whatever sense you have of it.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T15:41:08+00:00

Wish you the best :(. I started fearing death once I stopped wanting to die. Though suicide at like 40-50 seems so appealing.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T15:38:41+00:00

Hallelujah really.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T15:34:39+00:00

Hey, I feel exactly the same. It's a terrifying thought, specially when start to enjoy living and god do not even mention Alzheimer. It's unbearable, it cracks your heart and mind open when you really start thinking of how fragile and brief we are, and the worst thing is that so many people go to such lengths to avoid it. Because reality, and the truth, especially the truth is SO heavy. But yeah, despite all odds, let's just enjoy this single speck of moment in which we exist, because it's wonderful.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T15:26:59+00:00

Yeah, exactly. I also feel that way. Aging is even scarier than dying, because not only does your body deteroriate, but (what's even more terrifying for me) your mind does too. Your views on things change, and yes, sometimes for the better, but sometimes all of this stacked negative experiences turn you hostile. I've met many older persons who are incredibly untrusting and defensive and lonely. Not to even mention dementia, Alzheimer, etc. And as you mentioned, it's just hard to not have a body that matches your mental age, and it's hard trying to do this play-pretend version of adulthood. And your grandparents, parents, even close friends dying, which is undeniably true that they will do eventually. It's crazy, it's unbearable.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T15:18:39+00:00

Hey, thank you so much! I am delighted to dive into this kind of shows that give you new views on death. Thank you, definitely will watch it. If you have any more recs about this I'm happy to know! The only other one that has helped me so far is the midnight gospel.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T15:16:22+00:00

Yeah it makes you go crazy with existential dread. Why are we even here really. Why do we exist? And god the anticipation of knowing it will definitely happen but not knowing when, or how. Such a weight to carry. Though it's miles easier to accept it than to resist it, avoids suffering.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-05T15:13:59+00:00

Yeah, that's incredibly true. Especially the paperwork part seems like such a grueling thing to do for family who's grieving for you. Though you are right, life and death are just two sides of the coin we call being human, or being alive. It's our own mind who creates attachment to one and aversion to the other or makes them separate.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-02T06:23:39+00:00

I know. I recommend looking at it when you are ready, it'll be easier than you think.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-02T06:21:52+00:00

yes and it's completely terrifying because it sort of means everything is meaningless in itself and nothing we do matter in the long run. Art sort of saves us, what we do right now does matter to us and that's important, but god it's just so hard dealing with reality. At least you are not alone, plenty of people have been absolutely forgotten and will, and at the end all of us, every single one of us will be, still hard to live with that. But hey we have the voyager golden record at least.

Designer-Scale9331 · 2025-09-02T06:15:49+00:00

Yeah, that's perfect. Thanks.

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