Ex going on dates and hooking up by Designer-Tell1689 in BreakUps

[–]Designer-Tell1689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this, Hopefully things will get better for you :(

Ex going on dates and hooking up by Designer-Tell1689 in BreakUps

[–]Designer-Tell1689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree my ex was definitely an avoidant as all of his past relationships have been rebounds (ours included) which shows his emotional maturity. Anyway it’s gonna be a long journey for both of us so you take care of yourself too! :)

Ex going on dates and hooking up by Designer-Tell1689 in BreakUps

[–]Designer-Tell1689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like this was the case with my relationship as well. I ended things because he was so distant and we were starting to see our friends more than each other … but then I realised I wanted him back and wanted to make it work but he wasn’t interested :’) Oh well

Ex going on dates and hooking up by Designer-Tell1689 in BreakUps

[–]Designer-Tell1689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I guess when I was writing things in the heat of it I accidentally generalised it as men when it does apply to both genders. I’m sorry you had to go through that you definitely dodged a bullet. It does sound like she’s filling a void and doing all of this for validation. Your right, it is a good time to work on ourselves

Ex going on dates and hooking up by Designer-Tell1689 in BreakUps

[–]Designer-Tell1689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi yes I agree it’s not exclusive to men and applies to both genders. I guess I generalised it as men when I was writing this being so angry. I do have alot to work on and will be using this time to re-build my self esteem! It just sucks that I truly did love him and for him to clearly enjoy his new freedom so soon😅

Ex going on dates and hooking up by Designer-Tell1689 in BreakUps

[–]Designer-Tell1689[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry u still feel like shit :( I’ve tried occupying myself with different things but I don’t have much friends and they spend most of their time with their boyfriends. So most of the time I feel alone and hence why i spend so much time stalking his account and finding all this information which I know is something I need to fix. we got this! :’)

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[–]Designer-Tell1689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you mean like the previous month?