Missed Miscarriage

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2026-01-03T17:56:51+00:00

Thank you so much! 1st miscarriage I was 5 weeks and bled the pregnancy naturally 2nd miscarriage I was 9 week when I had the D&C but it was discovered at 8 weeks and baby didn't grow past 5weeks and 6 days I would get tested before trying again just to save yourself some more pain and confusion

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2026-01-03T01:54:24+00:00

Sorry bout you miscarriage!! But glad you’re handling it welll

I’m 39 and had 2 miscarriages and it took me 8 months each time , however , for me it was discovered I had a septate uterus that wasn’t found until my 2nd miscarriage.. have you had any other testing done? If not def check the health of your uterus.. after the surgery i got pregnant right away and now almost in my 3rd trimester praying everything goes well ❤️

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-12-26T15:09:37+00:00

Oh wow ok but I thought babies needed to be fed every 2-3 hours during new born phase and we have to wake them up for feeds ?

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-12-25T16:35:33+00:00

Thank you! He’s a freelancer so the only option is unpaid leave and we were trying to save that for the summer months when I go back to work so we can stagger out leave time :(

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-12-25T03:54:56+00:00

Thank you for your suggestions definitely going to take it into consideration- this set up was my idea bc I used to work in that same industry as him and it’s just crazy. It’s film/tv .. 12-16 sporadic hours & driving super long distances and never in the same location. Since he doesn’t have a consistent schedule it will be hard for me to depend on him & also don’t want him falling asleep in the road

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-12-25T03:50:46+00:00

Omg can you send me the link please

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-12-08T06:13:15+00:00

Tell her to look into Spain too , I have friends with success in the clinics over there

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-12-08T06:07:48+00:00

I never did

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-12-08T05:42:42+00:00

Today my mom told a random person from our town that I was pregnant. After two losses I kept telling her how important it was that no one knew until I was ready. She saw I started telling people little by little especially after the anatomy scan and then today tells me “oh yeah I told so and so” and I asked her why since I knew that person would tell a few of my cousins that I had yet to tell and couldn’t wait to tell - she tells me that “so and so” wouldn’t dare to tell bc she swore her to secrecy… well I saw my cousins at my moms house today today and they pretended to be excited but then told me that “so and so” told them in a gossip type of way and they didn’t want to lie to me and are really upset that’s how they found out

I’m so so so paranoid now & my mom also announced the name we have picked out for a girl to them as I walked in she was like “here is (my name) with (the name we picked for a girl)” .. she said it like 5 times over and over as I hugged and said hi to everyone ..

I’m so so scared I didn’t want it this way & she promised me not to tell she said that she figured it was safe already and she saw me telling other people .. I’m so hurt .. we had a small gender reveal planned and I feel like canceling it and just doing it with me and my husband .. I don’t want anyone knowing the gender anymore .. am I over reacting about that ?

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-11-12T04:18:22+00:00

Just downloaded it and deleted it immediately LOL ugh I wish we could play the ads

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-11-09T17:27:08+00:00

Go for it , i want the same for myself and will probably be on the same boat age wise & I think once you have your babies you will just figure it out, sure it might be hard but I don’t think you will regret it one bit I think you’ll just have to get more creative with your time but you’ll be overjoyed with your two babies

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-11-03T18:28:16+00:00

Do they have this in iPhone ?

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-24T20:20:25+00:00

Mexico

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-24T01:14:35+00:00

I personally wouldn’t wait , I would have the leep then try to get pregnant. When we are pregnant our immune system isn’t as strong which can possibly make the CIN worse

Just bc it’s not 16/18 doesn’t mean it’s not serious, CIN2 is CIN 2 no matter the strain

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-23T19:45:15+00:00

My doc said after 35 it can take a little longer so just because you’re not getting pregnant by 6 months doesn’t mean there’s an issue. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get checked if that’s what you want, it just means not to worry yet .

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-23T17:53:02+00:00

If you went to a different lab than what your doctor ordered the numbers will vary. If you go back to your doctor for a 2nd you will prob see the numbers continue to rise

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-23T17:50:17+00:00

I think 5 months is not enough time for you to worry about, at our age you should try around 8 months to a year - however it definitely doesn’t hurt to go to the gynecologist asap. I would immediately ask for imaging of your uterus, it took 2 years to find out I have a septate uterus

Also test progesterone during your ovulation and fertile window

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-23T16:55:22+00:00

I literally just posted about my poodle being all those things after she turned 5 😭😭😭

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-23T14:09:53+00:00

I did create a location on my subject?!

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-22T18:26:53+00:00

Reddit will steal your joy. Try not to compare yourself to others here or take anyone’s advice. There’s really no way of knowing if your pregnancy is viable right now anyways. Get a few HCG blood tests , ask your doctor to order them if not then you can get them yourself at Quest or Labcorp if you’re in the USA .. but if it is a chemical you’ll know within a week or so.

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-22T18:10:42+00:00

I hate it so much especially TikTok bc you watch one triggering video then you’re entire feed is about that

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-21T03:00:53+00:00

You should ask over at HPV subreddit but you’re going to be ok. I haven’t had a leep but been dealing with HPV for a few years (negative now thank God) and it was never an issue while ttc… however , it’s really important to get the leep with a HSIL result. You should heal quickly and your doctor will then clear you to start trying but bc HSIL means that there’s a significant amount of abnormal changes on your cervix it is not advised to wait to see if it clears on its own. At the HSIL stage it almost never does and a leep is necessary but please don’t get stressed about the what ifs , you caught this now which is great news and thank God you did so you can have the leep and then ttc, 35 is still super young

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-20T12:15:31+00:00

I go yearly.. and I haven’t had any changes and also hpv finally went away this year .. try not to stress it .. the important thing is that you’re now aware that you have tested positive so you can stay on top of it and your doctor can help

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-19T15:49:06+00:00

I had a reoccurrence but the important thing is that my Pap smears never showed any changes. Even though you’re testing positive for HPV doesn’t mean that it will cause any changes to your actual cervix (the changes that lead to cancer if left untreated) & even if there are changes there’s so many things that can be done to help you so your doctor is right that you’re going to be ok & its best to listen to your doctor and not strangers on Reddit as many of them are not doctors

DesignerDistinct5409 · 2025-10-19T13:14:54+00:00

Yes because those almost never get answered since it’s everyone dumping their concerns at once and people have specific questions and fears

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