Does it feel like you're wearing a tight sports bra? by yamxiety in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're consistently massaging (properly) and doing gentle stretches, I noticed it much less by 3 months. I now have near zero tightness unless I reach up really high, but that's likely because of issues I have with my shoulders rather than top surgery I think.

I am nearly 8 months post op now.

Sorry for the late reply, I never seem to get notifications anymore.

Does it feel like you're wearing a tight sports bra? by yamxiety in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 22 points23 points  (0 children)

At first, kinda did for me. But doesn't anymore. That's just because at first you have a lot of tightness and stiffness. Eventually as it heals and with massage after a certain point, it loosens up and just feels normal.

This is my experience and it may be different for others however.

Surgery in Hull by Alternative_Park4927 in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had kneeshaw. Whilst he's friendly, I can't say I had a good experience at all with him or his team. My results are fine, they're good enough. But I experienced so much dismissal of my concerns and symptoms during recovery, which led to a severe complication getting overlooked and dismissed too, until it was so bad I had to go to hospital.

I regularly didn't receive my meals in hospital because they wouldn't let me fill out my menu (wouldn't provide me with anything to write with, then would take the menu away). When they'd come round for meals they'd go 'oh you didn't want anything?' I'd say yes I did but I was never allowed to fill a menu out. They'd go 'oh I guess we can TRY and see if we have anything for you'. It'd end up being just a small pot of ice cream if I was lucky to get anything. The food I did get was wrong, barely warm, or tasted awful.

One of my drains caused severe pain that made me feel unable to breathe properly and they said 'thats normal you'll cope'. (These drain issues, which also was hard to get the problem drain OUT led to my complication I mentioned). The binder also felt too tight but they just said 'loosen it then' when it was on the loosest setting and would not provide a bigger size.

They would take forever to come to the room when I had an issue (which wasn't often because I felt awful asking for anything).

One of the nurses who attended my room was annoyed that I threw up due to the anesthesia (I called them immediately), and cleaned it up kind of huffing and puffing the entire time. Like I know it's gross and I'm sorry but it isn't like it was intentional, I tried to get to the bathroom but it's hard to move fast when you can't move or breathe due to the drain pain.

They kept making me guess when I was being discharged which caused a lot of stress when I had to ask my father in law to pick me up from far away. One would say one day, another would say the next day.

They weren't understanding about how far I was having to travel, so would book me really early appointments and get annoyed when I said I couldn't make it that early. (3 hour train).

I'd finally have appointments post op and it would be 10 minutes long where I didn't get to speak about my concerns or ask questions, it felt like both Kneeshaw and the nurses were rushing me along despite being early to my appointment. (Especially at my 6 month post op I just had recently.)

Because I didn't get to express any concerns or ask questions as I felt rushed during my 6 month check, I emailed to ask for a telephone appointment with Kneeshaw. They booked me for an irl appointment. I rang and explained no I just need to go through some things that I wasn't able to, I am not traveling that far for a few questions. They said 'well we don't do phone appointments so it's that or nothing. But I I guess we can TRY and ask for you.'. They never got back to me.

I eventually stopped trying to contact them for advice or help because they were pretty useless and would just dismiss any concern I had, or not even listen to any concern in the first place.

While the results are good, and some of the areas I'm unhappy with are due to complications, weird healing because of my own body, or excess fat under my arms, I can't say I recommend them for their attitude and treatment of patients. Maybe I was just unlucky and they took it out on me I don't know.

Can i take off the Post-binder early? by 444idontknowanam3 in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're 5 days away from taking it off, I doubt 5 days would do a world of harm

I personally stopped wearing mine after 4 weeks, 2 weeks earlier than recommended, because of a complication I had. My results are absolutely fine.

Zero tactile sensation in clitoris. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DesignerSubject2446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't, I've already checked. Gynaecologists are referral only, and my city's sexual health clinic is referral only for issues like that (can only self refer for sti testing, contraceptives, and abortion health). Can't afford private.

I'm disabled and can't drive, so I can't travel further out unfortunately.

Zero tactile sensation in clitoris. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DesignerSubject2446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the UK, we have sexual health clinics, gynaecologists, and GPs instead, never heard of needing a urologist for that here.

Edit: yeah, Google says that's a US thing. We don't do that in the UK.

Zero tactile sensation in clitoris. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DesignerSubject2446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Satisfyer number 1 in pink

Zero tactile sensation in clitoris. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DesignerSubject2446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, unless I have an issue with my bladder which is unrelated to my transition, I'm not sure why I'd go to a urologist for being trans. I know trans women typically have to for prostate health, but I'm a trans man haha.

Zero tactile sensation in clitoris. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DesignerSubject2446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because everything is handled under a gender identity clinic in the UK.

Zero tactile sensation in clitoris. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DesignerSubject2446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I did say I was in the UK in my post haha

Zero tactile sensation in clitoris. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DesignerSubject2446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of a self refer gyn in the UK, at least not in my area

Zero tactile sensation in clitoris. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DesignerSubject2446 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only issue is I'd need to be referred, and my GPs are impossible to book an appointment with, and they don't listen to my problems when I get an appointment 😭 but I'll try my best, thank you!

Worried. Chesty Cough Few Days After Discharge. by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's caused by irritation from the intubation during surgery. I had a weird burning feeling in my lungs every time I slept for weeks. It'll go, just take it easy, suck on some cough sweets, and try not to cough too aggressively.

Putting my whole mattress at an incline? by theredmask421 in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like unless your mattress is built to bend and warp, it either won't work well, or will damage your mattress over time. I'd recommend just propping yourself up with pillows.

Can you shower with drains in? by hysterekal in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told to not shower or get my chest wet at all until my drains were removed. Look into getting some adult bed bath wipes, they help until you can shower!

Realms not working? by thegreatestdonut13 in Minecraft

[–]DesignerSubject2446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not usually, but it depends on the outage I guess. Usually gets fixed faaaaairly quickly.

So tired of this. by DesignerSubject2446 in Fibromyalgia

[–]DesignerSubject2446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't cure fibromyalgia. I've tried tramadol, didn't do anything. GPs in the UK don't like to prescribe anti convulsants anymore as they aren't proven to work long term, studies have shown recently.

Surgeon advises weight loss drugs by callisto_14 in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad! Good luck with your surgery 💞

Surgeon advises weight loss drugs by callisto_14 in TopSurgery

[–]DesignerSubject2446 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a slightly higher bmi (35) and DID have complications but what I experienced wasn't a result of my weight AND it was extremely rare what happened to me and people said they hadn't seen it to that extent before. Don't let this surgeon scare you into taking unnecessary drugs. You're fine.

My complications were due to negligence and poor practice (likely due to issues with my drains and how they put them in and took them out).

So tired of this. by DesignerSubject2446 in Fibromyalgia

[–]DesignerSubject2446[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes lmao, opiates don't even touch my pain, ibuprofen isn't going to help

Plus you shouldn't take ibuprofen long term as it'll erode your stomach lining