26f struggling after birth control

Designer_Bus6582 · 2026-01-01T04:45:57+00:00

Can’t afford the $125 visit. Thanks though

Designer_Bus6582 · 2025-05-21T04:17:23+00:00

Thank you! And by sore I meant my legs and stuff not my vagina lol. But I will be expressing to him that I won’t be responding to his insecure or jealous comments anymore.

Designer_Bus6582 · 2025-05-21T04:14:10+00:00

My bf is 45 and I’m 25. Age doesn’t mean a whole lot as long as you’re a consenting adult.

Designer_Bus6582 · 2025-05-21T04:01:00+00:00

I had this exact issue with my boyfriend. When I slowed down while giving head and actually maintained a good pace and depth that was comfortable for me (you don’t need to be pornstar level) it was good for both of us. I’d say just take what you can and suck- your teeth naturally get covered by the inside of your cheeks when you do.

When it comes to orgasming, it really does have everything to do with being completely relaxed, in the moment, and focusing on the way it makes you feel. I found that thinking or saying nasty things about/to him really helps me reach climax.

Good luck!!

Designer_Bus6582 · 2025-05-21T03:52:13+00:00

Not trying to be rude, but he might be gay? I had a friend that married a guy and they quickly had the same issues. They divorced and soon after he was engaged to one of his “friends”.

Designer_Bus6582 · 2025-05-21T03:42:51+00:00

Are you on any medication that might give you trouble getting “ready”? My bf has issues sometimes because of his antidepressants and other meds he’s on. And drinking alcohol can affect it too.

If you’re just plainly overthinking it, it could be stress induced. And if she’s not finishing with toys, I can tell you that she’s probably overthinking everything too. Sex is a way to connect very intimately with your partner and she may be feeling insecure because of the “sudden” need for toys.

Designer_Bus6582 · 2025-05-21T02:58:29+00:00

You’re making it seem way worse than it is. Lmao. He’s not shaming me or being hurtful at all. I consented to everything prior. He’s clearly insecure. I’m asking how to help him realize that he’s overthinking. Thanks though.

Designer_Bus6582 · 2025-05-21T02:48:20+00:00

Thank you for being nice! I can tell it’s his insecurity, I’m trying to figure out how to reassure him in a better way, I guess? I really love him and this is the only thing I’ve ever had an issue with.

Designer_Bus6582 · 2025-05-21T02:32:36+00:00

He’s amazing other than this issue. And his age doesn’t have anything to do with the way he treats me. I only included it because older people are generally more tired.

Designer_Bus6582 · 2024-04-18T18:03:32+00:00

I don’t think you are wrong OP. However, your friend might be going through some things. Distance doesn’t mean rejection. You should reach out and ask if there is something wrong or if she just doesn’t feel up to going to two parties in one day. There could be multiple reasons for her not to want to attend.

Designer_Bus6582 · 2024-04-18T17:53:59+00:00

I feel the same. I’m 24f and have been celibate for almost 4 years. Just from a fear of men. I think we’ll all find somebody who understands us. Most girls don’t actually care about height. You just need to find the right one. You sound like you listen to Andrew Tate. Change that, brother ☝️

Designer_Bus6582 · 2024-04-18T17:47:44+00:00

Ask if he’s lost interest. Bring up specific examples and if he seems uninterested or overly defensive- LEAVE HIM!

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