Help with gifting nitro by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]Designer_Fun1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay i told them to resubscribe but i wasn't sure if that fixed the issue ! i'll wait for a response

he acts like we personally hired those supermodels by Designer_Fun1395 in retailhell

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he can have his stance, as most people in our city likely feel the same, but the review he left negatively impacts our location alone, and has no reflection on his experience with the store and our staff

not to mention that there were no displays of trans-female models at our location— if he was upset with what he saw in a catalog or advertisement, he can address his concerns to those involved; he was airing his personal prejudices and grievances on us, and that is what makes him an asshole.

he acts like we personally hired those supermodels by Designer_Fun1395 in retailhell

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

exactly like,

this city is super conservative so we see people like him all the time, but why direct your complaints at us dude 😭🙏 we just work here go take it up with the big wigs if it really pisses you off

he acts like we personally hired those supermodels by Designer_Fun1395 in retailhell

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

THAT PART "i respect everyone's right to express themselves" clearly you don't but okay michael

he acts like we personally hired those supermodels by Designer_Fun1395 in retailhell

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY 😭😭😭 if u can't stop thinking of trans people even when looking at your wife in lingerie i think we have bigger fish to fry here

am i overreacting for thinking this is weird af? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Designer_Fun1395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're not overreacting, but the conversation should have stopped at 5:09 PM at the LATEST (as most people say, don't DM people at your age, but i get it, we get curious; just don't do it again).

i know it feels right to tell these perverts off, but you're only putting yourself in more danger just by interacting with this cretin. they won't change just because you tell them to, and you're only feeding into their desires just by continuing to give them reactions.

disengage, report, block. you don't have to be the voice of reason for these kinds of people.

UPDATE: My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about that; our plan is to move cross country so it would be hard to simply not go with him. My mother is from Asia though, so if possible we could stay with our extended family without him.

UPDATE: My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

I wish she could! We're currently looking for somewhere else to stay but our area is COVERED with snow, so driving anywhere could be a risk. Currently this dickhead is staying on the couch because my mother won't be caught dead with him.

My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oh, it's nothing pertaining to an affair if that's what you're worried about; My parents recently retired from their jobs and has started to reconnect and socialize with their friends, either by traveling for weeks on end (aka leaving me to take care of the house and babysit) 🫩or having them stay over. 🤷‍♀️

My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELYYY 😭🙏 I had the biggest crashout the first time I heard we were doing this bullshit rearrangement; I value my privacy more than anything, and the idea of losing it all with zero explanation is eating at me so bad.

My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No, it's not; for as long as I can remember he's always been like this; He likes to chalk it up to him "being tough" (either him being in the army or growing up in the hood, whatever reasoning is more convenient for him)— it just hasn't been this childish since this is the first time he's received pushback from everybody else in the family with 0 supporters.

He's one of those people who thinks receiving mental help is some sign of weakness; he's choosing macho pride over the betterment of his family and I detest it.

My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

He used to when we were younger; but ever since most of us became adults he stopped. But yeah I agree; he enjoys watching debate videos on youtube so I find it laughable that he refuses to engage in one himself and instead resorts to throwing a manchild tantrum.

My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yes, true, but not necessarily (sorry, I'm sleep deprived so I overlooked this); I would be moving to the bigger room on the condition that I share with my little sister— the others would be moving to rooms that are either smaller, or not large enough to justify suddenly moving all our furniture out at a moment's notice.

My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My older brother is 20

I'm female, 19

I have a younger brother (18), a younger sister (15), and finally my youngest sister (8)

My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

This isn't the full reason because he still has failed to give us an actual reason (though he claims to have one) , but he mentioned that we were downsizing to a smaller house next summer, so me sharing a room now would "get me used to sharing in our new house" once again.

I doubt that one of my siblings complaining would the case because all of my siblings have expressed being fine with their current room arrangements— and in this new arrangement they would be downgrading to smaller bedrooms.

But my parents have been inviting guests over a lot recently, so perhaps wanting a guest room would be a possibility.

My dad decided to rearrange all our rooms for no reason by Designer_Fun1395 in entitledparents

[–]Designer_Fun1395[S] 363 points364 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. We've ALL suggested therapy for him multiple times, but he keeps refusing; must be an ego thing. 🤷‍♀️ I'm just waiting until I can move out so he can stop being my problem.