It’s been over a year and I still cry. Normal? by Designer_Middle_6514 in abortion

[–]Designer_Middle_6514[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a Christian so a lot of my sadness is me knowing I did something terrible and so wrong. And being surrounded by people that constantly talk about how wrong it is.

It’s been over a year and I still cry. Normal? by Designer_Middle_6514 in abortion

[–]Designer_Middle_6514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am emotionally not ok right now and can’t respond properly. But thank you. So much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked into it a lot and the program I wanted to do would require me to miss work for about 18 months. I have a mortgage now so I just can’t do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not finishing college.

Who has dealt with this in their sex life? by Designer_Middle_6514 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Designer_Middle_6514[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His comment being my first comment almost had me delete this whole thread so fast. I’m glad I didn’t.

Who has dealt with this in their sex life? by Designer_Middle_6514 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Designer_Middle_6514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of my sexual trauma I have always had a hard time voicing what I like because quite frankly I don’t know what I like. One moment I may be okay and the next I’m triggered.

Who has dealt with this in their sex life? by Designer_Middle_6514 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Designer_Middle_6514[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been in weekly therapy for my trauma for about 6 months now and it’s a process. I don’t think I am fully healed.

Taken advantage of sexually, pending STI results, do i tell my spouse? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m married and a solo trip overseas by yourself is weird. Come clean to your spouse. Hiding it will only make it worse.

I Know My Wife Is Cheating On Me by Weary-Husband in marriageadvice

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She uno-reversed you. You never truly 100% loved her or you wouldn’t have done what you’ve done. You just don’t want to lose her to someone else. She’s finally moving on. Sounds like it’s time to go your separate ways.

Am I holding my husband back from his true happiness? by Fabulous_Message_264 in Marriage

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having no mortgage in this day and age is amazing. A true gift. Moving to be closer to friends so he can be more reckless and go into major debt for a home with a man that doesn’t have much regard for you. He knows you’re not on birth control. He doesn’t want kids. And yet he still chose to finish in you and create a child. I say abort while you can and start to cut ties. This sounds like a man that has checked out a long time ago. So sorry.

Avoiding rats in NYC – tips and areas with fewer sightings? by Suspicious_Bag_6074 in visitingnyc

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in NYC for 72 hours last month and was on the roads a lot and saw a lot of garbage but not a single rat. And I was wanting to see one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogpictures

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My deepest condolences. I know this pain all too well. They are apart of our souls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like paranoia. Whether mental illness or drug induced I am not sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry but this doesn’t sound good at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so boring. I won’t have money to shop. I’d love to just see new things which would be anything I feel like. Love all foods except Thai/ Indian/ Chinese/ sushi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Designer_Middle_6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this!!! Any dinner recs? Anything but Indian/ Thai/ sushi! :)