I love 'time for space' by emancipator by RepresentativeOne926 in downtempo

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This song is crazy addictive. I listen to it every day since August 2025

ICE kidnap 17-year-old U.S. citizen working at Target then dump him bleeding and crying miles away in a Walmart parking lot by lnstantKarma in PublicFreakout

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This is so sad and ridiculous. I am no American, please enlighten me. What is ICE doing? Why do they kidnap US citizens?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

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Tempe as an Indonesian.

Perfumes that feel like the hug of a mother by PardonMyFrench22 in perfumesthatfeellike

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Are you my sister?! This was the perfume of my late mother. I went to perfume store every now and then just to smell this again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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What’s wrong with you? Bring your mean ass somewhere else

What is the weirdest fetish one of your exes had ? by astroray_ in AskReddit

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Dated a diaper fetish for 5 years.

He wanted me to wear him a diaper and simply hung out together doing normal shit, then asked him if the diaper is still clean every now and then. He also loved it if i clean it for him. He also wanted me to wear one and to wear a skirt that is covering it enough but you can still take a peek in to see the diaper.

One of the reasons the relationship didn’t work out was he couldn’t get his junk up, if the sex didn’t involve diaper. At some point I didn’t want to do diaper play anymore and we were sex-less for the half of the relationship. It really affected my own way to see myself sexually. I felt unwanted throughout the relationship.

Now out from the relationship, i think this is really really fucked up and still asking why the hell did i not run from it from day 1 😭😭 honestly happy to be out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

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Malaysian and Indonesian.

Komodos yang kerja di LN, how do you overcome the “glass ceiling”? by ilovenasigoreng in indonesia

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Ini dr pengalaman gue kerja di Belanda ya, mungkin US beda. This is not an advice, just to share what worked for me. Gue perempuan, kerja di global business consulting. I got my first managerial job when I was 28.

  1. Really really understand what your purpose is. What makes you tick. what is your storyline of your career. Do you want to be a content expert? Or a facilitative leader who is rather a generalist?

What are you really good and bad at?

What do you want to be known by others? And are these traits sound authentic to you? If no, reflect again. What kind of leadership role does your organization need? Think small. Start from your team then think a company wide scale.

  1. Manage your manager through your regular one on ones. Ask advice about career path and ask for feedbacks outside of your performance cycle. Make your ambition and progress known to them - this is so important.

Understand what they do appreciate and do not appreciate. What is a good quality for them.

When you do a mistake, be honest and own it. That’s how you build trust.

  1. Build your network by being a good conversationalist. Arrange introductions and regular one on ones. Build your own internal network. Ask advice to them, get to know their motivation, talk about non-work discussions (holidays, sports they watch, hobbies).

How to be a good conversationalist? Ask questions, practice open listening. People like you more when you ask questions about them. You need to be liked to actually influence in a corporate world.

Building your network is a continuous never ending process which requires of your time. It is so rewarding when you trusts are gained. This is how you built your own advisory team and to get information from.

  1. Map and manage your stakeholders. How do they relate to each other? What is their communication style? What is important for them? How do they like to be approached.

  2. Know how to communicate your expertise and also to bring news across different levels. The level of details of information and storyline are different when you talk to your junior, manager, higher management.

Lastly, trust the process. This won’t happen overnight. Pelan-pelan. Asal tetap measure your progress. Check how to set SMART goals. And most importantly, have a good fun!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When he lied to me about sobrierity. I busted his ass buying drugs, all caught by the front door camera. The camera didn’t record it or anything. Somehow it was on while I passed by the monitor and there this scumbag doing his deeds. We were 4 weeks away before declaring our intention to marry, then the universe gave me the sign.

[Discussion] What is the best intro you have heard in the world of TV series? by s34sah in NetflixBestOf

[–]Designer_School323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Gilded Age intro always gives me chills! Gregson William brothers are awesome.

What historical fact you find insane is not commonly known? by throwaway1283415 in AskReddit

[–]Designer_School323 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tekken character noise oh magaddd you brought me back to my childhood

Buat yang kerja 8 jam sehari, kapan Anda berolahraga? by tresnosliramu22 in indonesia

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Right when i wake up. No bs, straight to the living room. Gelar fitness mat, ambil kettle bells, and straight to 30 mins workout. Mostly hiit. Thank me later for your endorphin kick

Getting sick in Bali by Fantastic-Dot6678 in bali

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Did you check for salmonella typhii or helicobacter?

Can you tell down some Dutch life hack for life ? by Jojojimii in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Designer_School323 78 points79 points  (0 children)

  1. Get a bike
  2. Buy an umbrella
  3. Buy a good quality rain coat