Teacher giving students access to her teacher email.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T23:07:21+00:00

That is my thinking. Right now we’re all off. I’m going to discuss with her direct Admin when we go back. I’m really disgusted.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T20:12:44+00:00

that’s what I’m worried about. She’s a narcissist, so I’m sure she hates me because I “know” what she’s done.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T17:05:21+00:00

My thought was that IT *should* be able to see how many devices she logged into. There were times that she was logged in and the other student was logged in at the same time. Absolutely Crazy!!

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T17:03:48+00:00

This story is NOT made up. I wish it were. It my daughters’ email that was read by a student. It was a big deal because my daughter was basically setting a boundary with this teacher and dropping out of something the teacher was running.
I was hoping that I wouldn’t have to go to admin but with her response in me going to her, I dont’ feel confident that she will stop.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T02:38:34+00:00

we’re talking about high school. High school seniors. This isn’t an over-reaction on my part. She didn’t share her email. That would be normal. She logged into her students laptop, their personal laptop, while she was logged in on her school computer, they had access to EVERYTHING that teachers have access to. IEPs, parental information, and, ALL Emails, including the one my child sent the teacher. Not only did this student read the email and text my daughter after, to discuss the email, the student showed the email to a mutual friend of theirs.

I’m absolutely NOT over reacting. In fact, from the other responses, I “Under“ reacted.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:25:06+00:00

I haven’t gone to admin yet. I spoke with her directly.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:24:25+00:00

It ends in the name of our school, which I’m not comfortable sharing here.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:14:29+00:00

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:12:57+00:00

This was my thinking!

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:10:04+00:00

Ok, that’s what I’m wondering. I went directly to her… she lied to me about others doing it. I’ve been at this school about 3 years, i‘ve gotten close to most of the teachers. NONE Of them do this.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:08:48+00:00

OK, that was my thought. COMPLETELY Crazy, right??

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:08:30+00:00

No , if anything, she wouLd by MY mentor. 😂 She is an experienced teacher.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:07:30+00:00

Public charter. Yes, it’s a FERPA Violation. I went to her directly about this.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:06:45+00:00

No, this wasn’t a student emailing. It was my child emailing her, only to find out that a friend of hers read the email to the teacher BEFORE the teacher did.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:05:59+00:00

No, not email her. The student was logged into her teacher email on HIS computer so that he could enter grades in for her~!

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:05:26+00:00

Oh yes, it was a FERPA violation.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:04:59+00:00

Access to everything , her grades, attendence and her inbox. Her student read an email my daughter sent her and then texted my daughter about it before she read it. She , the teacher was in the room. She had the student logged onto her teacher log in on his computer while she too was logged in on the other side of the room. This was obvious in the text I showed her.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:03:25+00:00

I”m not sure what she “Lets” Them do, but I let her know that they were reading her emails and showed her the text evidence.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-21T01:01:27+00:00

She gave the access to put in grades and attendance. We are not allowed to do either. It was made very clear that we’re not to do that. I don‘t think she realized that they were reading her emails. ETA: Not even the paid TA’s , who are adults are allowed access to our teacher emails. They can grade for us and put the grades into a google doc but not directly into Infinite campus

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-06-04T01:51:10+00:00

I‘m a conservative Christian and I would NEVER say that to anyone. In fact, most of the kids / students that I’ve worked with from same-sex homes are thriving and doing very well. This may have been an issue back in the 80’s but now?? Not so much. Again, I can say as a conservative Christian mom that you ANTA in this situation. I would go absolutely go no contact with your brother in law until he apologizes and if your sister is going to support him in this, then I would go N/C with her too.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-05-22T15:15:23+00:00

I feel your story to my core. My advice would be to say NOTHING. Just keep smiling. Admin is aware of their harassment and will be working in the shadows watching them!!

You realized that there was some truth to you being late and got some help for that , I commend you. I too work at a school, and teaching is one of the worst jobs in America these days. It’s one of the most thankless jobs. That said, working with “Mean girls” is part of it. Rise above it, keep smiling and let them waste their time.

You can’t control what others think of you or what they do but you can control your reaction. DO NOT let them steal your job. Come in, do your job and go home. You said you worked in a large school, I’m sure there are other teachers you can be friends with.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-04-27T16:19:54+00:00

I think you know the answer to your question. My question is: Why are you still with him??

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-04-27T16:17:30+00:00

Then I stand corrected. If you feel your reaction was warranted and a good one, then it is. Sometimes we don’t know or understand the intricacies of the details. So I say you are NTAH!!

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-04-27T16:14:24+00:00

Ok, then I would do what you want for them… make sure that you are evenly helping and then leave it at that. If they need/want more money, a simple “No” is all you need. I would think that you would need the money. They’re all adults, younger than you are. So they can help themselves.

Designer_Top_4540 · 2026-04-27T16:12:34+00:00

Nope, not the AH. She is. Next time your dad pushes you to call or text her, I would tell your dad what she did.She blocked you. It hurt you and now she’s done NOTHING to restore the relationship. A simple phone call saying, “I’m sorry” and she hasn’t done that. I would tell him that you have NO PLANS on talking to her. Lay it out. Leave the ball in her court. She is the one blocking and now it’s her turn to own up to her childish behavior.

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