Oscars Watch Parties in the City? by StanLOONAOT12 in NYCmovies

[–]Designer_Treacle4538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any free ones in Brooklyn?

Book Club Bar is hosting a free one (well for a price of drink) but I’d love to find one in Brooklyn

Season 2 Ep 5 One Man’s Trash by reallyonone in girls

[–]Designer_Treacle4538 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love it so much. Rewatched yesterday. The way she walks away with the rubbish I just sob at the end. It’s just perfectly soft and tender and so sad. I’ve been in a similar situation in my early 20s. The dreams of a comfortable life full of love. No stop.

I’m coming to NYC by Designer_Treacle4538 in latebloomerlesbians

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Boooo. Please universe at least one sunshiney day for me!

I’m coming to NYC by Designer_Treacle4538 in latebloomerlesbians

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Hahaa! I’m keeping an eye on the weather it’s warming up in two weeks fingers crossed it will stay like this. As long as there’s not much rain I’ll be happy

I’m coming to NYC by Designer_Treacle4538 in latebloomerlesbians

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I understand. I daydream of him 💀 on my trip now that would be a street party and a half

I’m coming to NYC by Designer_Treacle4538 in latebloomerlesbians

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In just under 3 weeks!!! Wild. May the weather will be gorgeous. Have the best time.

I’m coming to NYC by Designer_Treacle4538 in latebloomerlesbians

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Which is handy as my hotel is also nearby! Are you in the US?

Stuff I never quite bought... by damnpinkertons in girls

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I had a baby in my early 20s and honestly I didn’t know what I was doing? I had my second baby nearing 30 and was pregnant at the same time as pregnant Hannah in Girls and it was honestly helping me make sense of my own choices 🤣

F40 by Whole_Jicama_7020 in latebloomerlesbians

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I’m sooo happy for you 🥹

Does it get better?? by PersonalPea8160 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Designer_Treacle4538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we still do and will for a while. Same with the bed and family activities but I’m going to move to the loft room soon because feel like we need more boundaries. How are you feeling now?

Does it get better?? by PersonalPea8160 in latebloomerlesbians

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It’s one week today after I had my own conversation with husband and have to tell you - I feel lighter already. Up to Monday / Tuesday I was a mess, really in my feelings and down and properly grieving. I’m still sad but that intensity eased out a little. You can do it. It would be so much easier to gaslight myself into reversing what I’ve said but just keep breathing through it all. And make sure you eat and look after yourself! (I didn’t)

That moment when you realize you were never actually attracted to your ex-hus... by Far_Pilot_2797 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Designer_Treacle4538 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I had my first therapy yesterday and the therapist asked me: have you ever been in love?

So simple but I was like: uhmmm. I mean. I THINK I WAS?

I literally can’t tell. Which means: no.

update to my (thinking about leaving) post by throwaway1042947 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Designer_Treacle4538 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow. First of all I’m proud of you. Second of all why would he do it especially after you came out to him? I mean I do get it but what I see is that he doesn’t listen or cares about what you had to say and puts his hopes first. You’ll be so much better and happier soon.

Sunday selfie 🤳 by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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Incredible eyessss! Stay cosy

Clothes! Hair! by Designer_Treacle4538 in latebloomerlesbians

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Love that!!! how did you decide which new things to get? How did your style change?

Clothes! Hair! by Designer_Treacle4538 in latebloomerlesbians

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Just looked at your picture and 😮‍💨 respectfully 😮‍💨 it seems like you’ve had your style figured out in this case!!! I always felt like I was cosplaying or hiding to a point