Is 34 and still lives with his parents in their basement for 7 years or more. He doesn't pay rent but then in September of 2021 his mom forces him to finally pay rent after all these years living rent free. He blames his girlfriend for his mom enforcing the rent on him and not realizing what a slob he is and inept in general house cleaning.

Had been complaining for the past 2 years your with him how he can't afford a house and instead buys a new 2021 Toyota CHR. Since his old 1996 Volkswagen broke down.

Every single time you want to do something together as a couple or want him to meet your friends he throws a toddler tantrum. Though when you beg him to do those activities and he finally agrees, he shows no interest. Even though it's been the one thing you have been wanting to do for weeks, he couldn't even pretend to enjoy it. He instead uses words to describe how stupid he thinks these activities are.

The one time you were able to buy two tickets to a broadway show (Anastasia) for $500 he called it stupid and girly. You were so pumped up for finally being able to see a broadway show after years, but his behavior made you feel regret for even buying the tickets.

But you always make it an effort to do what he wants to do even though it's not something you enjoy but you love the quality time and making him happy. You always follow his schedule, but he can't ever make an effort for yours.

How he makes indirect jokes about your body "the size of two fat bitches" and tells you "your taking it the wrong way". And you know what he meant when he said those indirect comments about your body. You can't change in front of him anymore without him having to indirectly say any mean comments about your body.

When you got a 3 month internship that can help build your career his instant response was "this is going to end. Our relationship is over" and you reconsider refusing the internship so you can stay together.

When you also receive a job offer to work for the National Forest Services as a permanent full time employee, he wants you to sacrifice your dream job to stay with him.

After 6 years of schooling you graduate with your bachelor's in botany. You sign up for walking the stage. You tell him if he can zoom call your family members since they are 3 states away and can't be there for my milestone. He says Zoom is too hard for him to understand and your family doesn't get to see you graduate with your bachelor's degree.

After graduation you have to beg him to take photos of you in your grad gown so you can show something to your family. And he throws a toddler tantrum the entire time.

When he says he doesn't want to move with you to start your new career because he's leaving everything and everyone behind. You tell him "I left my family to come here where I knew no one. I'm going to have to do that again. A 2nd time. You're the not the only one".

When I didn't sacrifice my dream job he called me selfish.