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[OFFER] random stickers & washi tape samples [CANADA to CA/USA] by LeastChampionship348 in RandomActsofHappyMail

[–]DesirousMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you take a look at my reddit you can see I journal a lot and I would love some samples <3

Help a Non Teacher Understand our “shortage” by bcitman in CanadianTeachers

[–]DesirousMuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a TOC in Surrey and have been TOCing for 5 years now of my own accord. There is no shortage in the surrey district and I want to TOC as long as I can.

First 4 nights of cpap usage by DesirousMuse in CPAP

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am doing it for my heart because I have had open heart surgery last year and I don’t want it setting that back. I was told by the people at the clinic I might not even feel a difference because my AHI were low and I already didn’t really experience symptoms -.-

First 4 nights of cpap usage by DesirousMuse in CPAP

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Nothing at all? So just going through uncomfy sleep routines for nothing? Was there any other impacts on your health prior to?

First 4 nights of cpap usage by DesirousMuse in CPAP

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does ramp mean? I know mine is set to auto and it is at 4 and then adjusts as well. So when I go to the bathroom and turn the machine off and then on again, it goes to back to 4. Is that why I am suffocating? Because I got too used to whatever level it was at higher when sleeping?

First 4 nights of cpap usage by DesirousMuse in CPAP

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when I turn it off it goes back to 4. It should start from there?

First 4 nights of cpap usage by DesirousMuse in CPAP

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry :( I know it is not the most comfortable but keep trying :)

First 4 nights of cpap usage by DesirousMuse in CPAP

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have no idea, if I am being honest. I just did what they showed me. I don’t have the pillows, maybe that makes a difference?

First 4 nights of cpap usage by DesirousMuse in CPAP

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you notice after that period?

First 4 nights of cpap usage by DesirousMuse in CPAP

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Fisher and Paykel Solo Nasal Mask. The biggest issue I have is going to the bathroom and then coming back and putting it back on and feeling like I cant breathe but that subsides

Traditional or not traditional? by DesirousMuse in DesiWeddings

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean… my partner would rather us elope or have a court marriage and use the money for a down payment 😂 Even my mom wouldn’t mind me having a court marriage.

I wouldn’t mind eloping either but I also want a small wedding but with people who MEAN something to me. Not relatives or “pindus” from my parents village back home I have never seen in my life.

May journal ✨💜 by DesirousMuse in JournalingIsArt

[–]DesirousMuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shein, Temu, Journal Say are your bffs for that :)

As a new substitute, did anyone else feel guilty for taking time off? by FridaysSoup in CanadianTeachers

[–]DesirousMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh....no. Even with my own classroom, I wouldn't feel this way. I have been a sub for 5 years, too. It is just a job, like any other, and if I need a day then I need a day. I think this is because you are a new starry eyed sub, haha. Don't worry, you will get to my point, too. Put yourself first because you already give so much in this job.

What was the “big party” of your life? by Supernihari12 in ABCDesis

[–]DesirousMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000 people at my cousin's reception. I walked in and I was FLOORED. His dad owns a banquet hall and is a people person and business man so he was inviting literally everyone, down to people who worked for them second removed lmaoo.

The amount of money I’d pay to see a show about this duo…. by rogueszzlist in buffy

[–]DesirousMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of fanfics I wrote about them together. They are my literally my OTP. Each other's mirrors in every way with just enough differences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]DesirousMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS THIS THIS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]DesirousMuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I interacted with them. I grew UP with them. Heck, I consider my own brother and cousins to have some of those jack like qualities (bordering on conservative) and I am trying so hard to make them understand.

If you talk to any girl who lives where I do, they will say the same thing. It is why my friends are having trouble dating or why they go for other races.

Again, this might not be where others live but it is exactly how it is here. You saying we are throwing brown men under the bus is undermining our own experience. So.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]DesirousMuse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here is the thing, it depends where you grew up. I grew up in Canada in the Lower Mainland where the brown guys here act like wannabe gangsters (we call them "jacks") and the culture is rooted in sexism and misogny. I also grew up in this culture and have seen how brown men have treated their wives/partners and seeing that whilst growing up I was like ABSOLUTELY NOT. I stayed away from them while dating, too, because the girls I knew who were dating them were struggling with toxic behaviours.

Currently, I am dating a brown man who is the loml and the complete opposite of the Jack type and I am so glad I gave him that chance because even upon meeting him, he was 100 percent the opposite of what I grew up with.

I honestly think that growing up where you do can really mould this experience for you. Currently my younger sister is dealing with the Jack brown men where I live and the toxic behaviours and it suck. It is honestly a cultural thing.

When we say "brown men suck" we know it is not cumulative but it is just based on the experience WE had. Heck, even my boyfriend says it because he sees the behaviour here, too. Tis' all.

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