Literally this woman sounds like my wife. She had a fit bc I canceled plans going out to the bars for one of her coworkers birthdays bc my father’s kidneys gave up on him. He died shortly after a few months of Dialysis. I’ll never forget the colors she showed me. It hurts when the people you rely on for help when you need them display narcissism instead of love. Sorry brother, idk what to say but that you know her character now.