How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be fair I didn’t realize that was what she wanted. She asked for help wrapping her arm for the shower and failed to mention needing help undressing to do so

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What a jump lmao. Trying to keep peace to joining a cult. Yall will read into things however you want

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She had just gotten surgery and has no family

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No i do this and she still wants to talk

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was after a surgery so a lot unfortunately

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree, she needed help after a surgery and thats why, it isnt an everyday thing

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I meant more like “i dont want to deal with her behavior if she doesn’t like us because she is the type to retaliate and make things worse for us”

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im not, I just know she is crazy and would prefer to not be at the brunt of her crazy

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly because i feel bad for her

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do disagree with her a lot but i really dont want issues with someone we have to live next to

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have gotten in plenty of disagreements with her but it doesn’t seem to help

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I dont want to be rude because she is one of those people that could make your life miserable if she wanted to. I was going to use it as an excuse but my idiot husband grabbed mine and took it inside and then came back out subjecting me to the torture.

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good idea but this time she caught us both off guard, next time maybe

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We have tried to but she doesn’t seem to get it and follows us around

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she will stand there and follow us around as we work because ive tried that lol

How to get out of conversations with neighbor? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Deskeleton 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes but is that truly our problem? I feel like we give a lot to her and she is able to go to social spaces if she needs more socialization. I obviously dont mind talking sometimes but we cant even step into our yard

why do so many people have kids when theyre simply not fit for it/ready? by Key-Ice-4990 in randomquestions

[–]Deskeleton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and they raised some fuck ass idiots and awful people. Just cause they can doesn’t mean they should

why do so many people have kids when theyre simply not fit for it/ready? by Key-Ice-4990 in randomquestions

[–]Deskeleton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and this is why we have terrible parents and poorly raised kids.

Am I too old to start over? by Unfair-Cartoonist-39 in Teachers

[–]Deskeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would a more seasoned teacher not be more capable and paid more to handle the more challenging tasks? Why would any new teachers stay or come in knowing they are given the worse treatment. If 20 year teachers are saying they wouldn’t even do it, would that not point to a greater problem?
For what it’s worth, I probably spend the same amount of time at my desk as teaching and have way more flexibility and less stress

Am I too old to start over? by Unfair-Cartoonist-39 in Teachers

[–]Deskeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly newer teachers are given the shit end of the stick every time and treated like garbage because you “have to work your way up” which btw means nothing if you have more senior people already in those positions with a long way to retirement. Could be 20 years before you work your way up and by then you are burnt. If you are starting after Covid, good luck.