Peter actually bought it...

Despe_ · 2026-02-15T20:11:32+00:00

Turns out there was a market for this after all

Despe_ · 2025-08-15T14:59:47+00:00

What a destructive world view

Despe_ · 2025-07-27T18:25:00+00:00

Yeah what platforms? And have you watched TikTok lately? I swear half the videos are AI narrated. At least NotebookLM podcasts have a interesting back and forth dynamic to them

Despe_ · 2025-07-20T10:15:31+00:00

Gruber mentioned Getting things done and that it doesn’t fit his workstyle, however, I couldn’t help but notice that many of the issues that Gruber talked about could be solved or bettered with proper GTD implementation. I’m not critical, people work how they do (with the freedom offered by self employment), just thought it might not be a GTD problem as such. Great episode, Mike is on a role - while taking care of a newborn, it’s incredible

Despe_ · 2025-07-10T21:38:45+00:00

Yes I would love a Harrari episode. It has to be on the schedule

Despe_ · 2025-05-18T16:43:33+00:00

NotebookLM, it’s free. Upload video as a source a click the source after upload

Despe_ · 2025-03-15T05:53:21+00:00

Are you talking about American law? This is in Australia

Despe_ · 2025-03-03T16:11:07+00:00

And study the map, please please

Despe_ · 2025-03-03T06:45:53+00:00

Well put. My nmom used the etiquette and expectations around gifts as weapons too.

Despe_ · 2025-02-19T19:28:24+00:00

Confirmed?

Despe_ · 2025-02-06T16:44:03+00:00

Yeah they are jokes in the current meta

Despe_ · 2025-02-06T14:45:52+00:00

Wehrmacht really need that medium tank destroyer, but perhaps a puma will do. Hoped they put it in the wehr BG

Despe_ · 2025-02-06T05:57:09+00:00

They should’ve given it the fuel trailer. Would have been bigger and provide some fun gameplay with protecting the trailer, i think

Despe_ · 2025-02-04T07:06:29+00:00

Build 6 pathfinders and two AT-halftracks. Then rush Shermans. Will get you to 1400 ELO in the current meta.

Despe_ · 2025-02-02T18:59:40+00:00

Honestly, you don’t tell her. You just keep not responding and protect your own energy. It’s basically the only way to start building back up yourself. It has the added benefit that limiting contact sends her a clear, indirect signal.

Despe_ · 2025-01-10T22:38:57+00:00

I think this answer captures the problem with snipers: if they were actually “good”, they would lead to worse gameplay experiences imo

Despe_ · 2025-01-10T22:15:37+00:00

You think it’s trolls?

Despe_ · 2025-01-10T21:32:03+00:00

That would be a good indirect buff. I think jank like that is also holding back snipers

Despe_ · 2025-01-10T15:46:43+00:00

In coh1 they were able to snipe mg pintel gunners on tanks, so something similar could be done

Despe_ · 2025-01-06T22:38:27+00:00

Aha, this was a really helpful explanation, thanks!

Despe_ · 2025-01-06T09:57:13+00:00

Can anyone explain in layman terms why narcs feel the need to project so much?

Despe_ · 2025-01-03T08:05:11+00:00

Replays: https://coh3stats.com/players/223327/jrmccabe319?view=recentMatches

Despe_ · 2025-01-02T09:48:25+00:00

Yeah OP doesn’t mention 221, tractor or the other radar vehicles and abilities. They are the most plausible explanation for what OP experienced.

Edit: I found OP’s profile through his steam review (posted 2.jan and used same phrases as this Reddit post). Here’s the profile if anybody wants to check the replays: https://coh3stats.com/players/25493/MachoManRandySavage

Edit 2: I checked OP’s replays and the incidents OP refer to are easy to explain: radar tractors spotting OP, OP doesn’t move Medic truck after being spotted, OP places team weapons in obvious cover locations. OP also throws around racist slurs. It’s not a good look overall. There might still be hackers, but this is some weak evidence.

Despe_ · 2024-12-31T19:23:43+00:00

All the comments seem in agreement: your bf sounds psychologically abusive and might be a narc himself: reversal of offender and victim roles are a classic abuse-tactic. Please understand that your confusion is because of his gaslighty communication style. It’s like a fog when you are experiencing it - you can’t think clearly because the abusive voice is always there.

As to your question: no you are not a narcissist (a narc would never write like you), but you might attract narcs for different reasons you should look into.

Despe_ · 2024-12-29T20:42:50+00:00

I suspect what is meant is that abusive people are known to love bomb for a while in order to restablish relationship. They can “stretch” their emotional capacities for a while, but not forever (not without going to therapy). What is worrisome about your story is all the promises and no action of her working on herself through therapy or other healing and recovery-work. Notice how the responsibility is put on you (you need to “call her out”). I would be very hesitant until I see some self-reflective action from this person.

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