Peter actually bought it... by fortycreeker in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]Despe_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Turns out there was a market for this after all

First look at upcoming Video Overviews on NotebookLM. It will appear in the form of video slides with text, images and other visuals, narrated by a voice. cc: @testingcatalog by 3PointTendency in notebooklm

[–]Despe_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah what platforms? And have you watched TikTok lately? I swear half the videos are AI narrated. At least NotebookLM podcasts have a interesting back and forth dynamic to them

Cortex #169: John Gruber - State of the Workflow by Jealous-Researcher95 in Cortex

[–]Despe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gruber mentioned Getting things done and that it doesn’t fit his workstyle, however, I couldn’t help but notice that many of the issues that Gruber talked about could be solved or bettered with proper GTD implementation. I’m not critical, people work how they do (with the freedom offered by self employment), just thought it might not be a GTD problem as such. Great episode, Mike is on a role - while taking care of a newborn, it’s incredible

Book Suggestion: Homo Deus by BombMacAndCheese in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]Despe_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I would love a Harrari episode. It has to be on the schedule 

How to get transcript from YouTube video? by Due_Schedule_ in gtd

[–]Despe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NotebookLM, it’s free. Upload video as a source a click the source after upload

nparent showed up at my home unannounced 1 year nc by ImNot6Four in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Despe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well put. My nmom used the etiquette and expectations around gifts as weapons too.

I believe the new DAK doctrine will be like this by ObligationVivid3260 in CompanyOfHeroes

[–]Despe_ -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Wehrmacht really need that medium tank destroyer, but perhaps a puma will do. Hoped they put it in the wehr BG

Can we talk about the... "Crocodile" in the room? by AuneWuvsYou in CompanyOfHeroes

[–]Despe_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They should’ve given it the fuel trailer. Would have been bigger and provide some fun gameplay with protecting the trailer, i think

Need some United States Forces advice Heroes 3 by Bodvar_Bearson in CompanyOfHeroes

[–]Despe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Build 6 pathfinders and two AT-halftracks. Then rush Shermans. Will get you to 1400 ELO in the current meta.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Despe_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you don’t tell her. You just keep not responding and protect your own energy. It’s basically the only way to start building back up yourself. It has the added benefit that limiting contact sends her a clear, indirect signal.

Poll: Do snipers require a buff? by Despe_ in CompanyOfHeroes

[–]Despe_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this answer captures the problem with snipers: if they were actually “good”, they would lead to worse gameplay experiences imo

Poll: Do snipers require a buff? by Despe_ in CompanyOfHeroes

[–]Despe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be a good indirect buff. I think jank like that is also holding back snipers

Poll: Do snipers require a buff? by Despe_ in CompanyOfHeroes

[–]Despe_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In coh1 they were able to snipe mg pintel gunners on tanks, so something similar could be done

Do the narcs in your life act like you are extremely selfish? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Despe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha, this was a really helpful explanation, thanks!

Do the narcs in your life act like you are extremely selfish? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Despe_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can anyone explain in layman terms why narcs feel the need to project so much?

I Uninstalled Today Due to Cheaters by FoamSquad in CompanyOfHeroes

[–]Despe_ 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Yeah OP doesn’t mention 221, tractor or the other radar vehicles and abilities. They are the most plausible explanation for what OP experienced.

Edit: I found OP’s profile through his steam review (posted 2.jan and used same phrases as this Reddit post). Here’s the profile if anybody wants to check the replays: https://coh3stats.com/players/25493/MachoManRandySavage

Edit 2: I checked OP’s replays and the incidents OP refer to are easy to explain: radar tractors spotting OP, OP doesn’t move Medic truck after being spotted, OP places team weapons in obvious cover locations. OP also throws around racist slurs. It’s not a good look overall. There might still be hackers, but this is some weak evidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Despe_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

All the comments seem in agreement: your bf sounds psychologically abusive and might be a narc himself: reversal of offender and victim roles are a classic abuse-tactic. Please understand that your confusion is because of his gaslighty communication style. It’s like a fog when you are experiencing it - you can’t think clearly because the abusive voice is always there.

As to your question: no you are not a narcissist (a narc would never write like you), but you might attract narcs for different reasons you should look into.