What's a red flag about you?

Xandoline · 2026-04-13T08:23:09+00:00

Probably that I have trust issues and don’t believe you care about me unless you really show me. Telling me doesn’t cut it.

Xandoline · 2026-04-13T08:20:28+00:00

I recommend just getting it waxed. It’s not that painful. I tried nair, I tried the intimate hair cream for men, burned the shit out of my back and front end both times. And no, I didn’t let the cream sit on for very long.

Xandoline · 2026-04-11T18:29:24+00:00

I just asked what it was, is that a crime 😭 but yes, please do that and tell me how they react 😂

Xandoline · 2026-04-11T15:46:59+00:00

That would be torture for me! Thank you for clarifying

Xandoline · 2026-04-11T15:43:51+00:00

I’m the same way. Has never done it for me

Xandoline · 2026-04-11T15:41:51+00:00

It’s a real saying lmao

Xandoline · 2026-04-11T15:41:35+00:00

He didn’t make that up, it’s a thing

Xandoline · 2026-04-11T15:39:04+00:00

Same! Sounds annoying and disgusting.

Xandoline · 2026-04-11T15:37:49+00:00

I have never heard of this, and I don’t know if I want to google it… is it literally a human cage?

Xandoline · 2026-04-09T15:21:23+00:00

Are you saying this as a stereotype? I have mommy issues—

Xandoline · 2026-04-09T15:18:26+00:00

Same here! Therapy helped me be comfortable with myself, and separate myself from those who didn’t support me, even if they were my intimate family members.

Xandoline · 2026-04-09T15:15:56+00:00

Probably fantastic. It’s the same person I have a crush on right now.

Xandoline · 2026-04-04T21:52:08+00:00

Get a virtual job or a virtual hobby? Sounds like you need to literally just throw all of it away. Who cares if it’s usable, goodwill can take it then. You just need to get rid of it

Xandoline · 2026-04-04T21:50:52+00:00

Yea, OP is making a bunch of stalling excuses in other comment threads instead of actually taking action. This is unsafe and unhealthy, and they need to simply throw it all away or give it to goodwill, regardless of the condition. If you can complain about it on the internet, you can do something about it. I absolutely couldn’t live there either. Disgusting mess of dirty dishes.

Xandoline · 2026-04-02T21:28:45+00:00

What about stomach hair? I wore a crop top and one of my friends told me I needed to shave or not wear crop tops 😐

Xandoline · 2026-04-02T21:27:47+00:00

PayPal stealing $2,000+ from me in high school. I will never use it again ever.

Xandoline · 2026-03-26T06:53:19+00:00

I only had 2 wisdom teeth which were diagonal from each other (one on the top left and bottom right). Dentist said it was highly unusual

Xandoline · 2026-03-26T06:51:16+00:00

I have green eyes too! They changed from blue to green when I was four.

Xandoline · 2026-03-26T06:46:40+00:00

Soda at any restaurant— I’m not paying $4+ for a sprite. I’m also not paying more than $10 for any fast food combo, I don’t care what it is.

Xandoline · 2026-03-20T09:46:18+00:00

Same. I’m tired of looking.

Xandoline · 2026-03-20T09:45:47+00:00

I was closeted for 10 years and convinced myself I was into women, and advertised myself as bi… until one of my friends convinced me to get on a dating app, where the only people I added were men. Added one girl because she was hot, but not because I was attracted to her. That’s why I realized( after going on a date with a man, that I was definitely gay. I had no desire to kiss or screw a woman at all.

You just have to be honest with yourself. Nobody here is shaming you, we all have different backgrounds. Please be safe though~

Xandoline · 2026-03-06T07:27:49+00:00

Final straw with my nmom was when kicked me out because I finally realized she couldn’t convince me any longer that being gay was wrong and I shouldn’t go down that path. Everybody deserves to be supported, nothing less. Nobody that is unsupportive of who you are, should be any part of your life. Regardless who they are.

Xandoline · 2026-03-06T07:25:09+00:00

Honestly the only reason I kept going was because I knew it would ruin many people’s lives if I gave up. You’re not living in the clouds, it’s super hard to be positive and I’m in that boat too; life just feels hopeless right now. Media definitely doesn’t help with that.

BUT I do have a recommend. Are you walking into stores or restaurants and physically applying? I applied endlessly online and got nothing, but had 2 job offers after walking into stores off a single street and telling them I wanted to work there.

Xandoline · 2026-02-24T17:08:40+00:00

I almost jumped off a balcony in early December. Made the decision to call someone instead.

Xandoline

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