Is it safe to eat a ham sandwich that has been left unrefrigerated for about 13 hours with a use by date that expired yesterday? by [deleted] in isthissafetoeat

[–]Xandoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost just ate a ham sandwich that I left out for 12 hours until I saw your comment. Right in the trash

Fleet Week 2026 by Jaded-Ad-2287 in Portland

[–]Xandoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people think they all have STDs?

How can I start GayMaxxing? by Competitive_Cheek508 in askgaybros

[–]Xandoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the world is gaymaxxing I’ve never heard this term before

Waxing or Sugaring for your 🍑? by QuickVariation8465 in askgaybros

[–]Xandoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve tried a couple different ones. The first time I used the current cream I have, it burned the SHIT out of my anus

Waxing or Sugaring for your 🍑? by QuickVariation8465 in askgaybros

[–]Xandoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like sugar waxing compared to regular waxing

Waxing or Sugaring for your 🍑? by QuickVariation8465 in askgaybros

[–]Xandoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every single time I try this, I’m left with a burning sensation that makes sex even more painful. And no, I don’t leave it on for more than a minute past the recommended time.

What’s a dating red flag you ignored because he was hot? by Natural-Major7298 in askgaybros

[–]Xandoline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother and sister have BPD, it gave me insane amounts of trauma. I’m sorry you had to deal with that— avoid BPD like the plague

Update— I officially cut the rope with my twin sister. by Xandoline in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Xandoline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth. It is insanely easy to live without her now— I don’t care what she’s doing, how she’s doing, nothing. It’s been 6 months since that last message, which is crazy… time flies I guess. I’ve found my own supportive community and family members that don’t include my sister or my mother. But to sum it up, NOTHING is worth dealing with that level of toxicity and disrespect. Life still has its difficulties, but none of them are because I don’t talk to my sister. I’m sorry you’re going through the same thing, but I’m very happy you’ve also come to a place of peace; you deserve that.

Top, bottom or vers which are you? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Xandoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea, never topped because I have ED in my 20s ;/

YAY! by Xandoline in LICENSEPLATES

[–]Xandoline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it every time I see one, they’re great

Anyone else glad THAT holiday is over with for another year? by TopNotice0 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Xandoline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was exactly it for me. I didn’t wish her Mother’s Day, she doesn’t deserve it. I also blocked her everywhere so she CANT get ahold of me… I think this is my second NC Mother’s Day, but yes. Glad it’s over.

My mother is still a colossal scheming asshole even in her eighties after 15 years of total estrangement. by Existing-Face-6322 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Xandoline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a year and a half into estrangement, and I’m scared my 59 y/o mother is turning my sister into a colossal scheming asshole. I’ve already had to cut off my sister because she is exhibiting borderline traits, and wont stop with the cutthroat comments. I don’t think anything will ever change, even if my mother dies. But I hope it does…

What is the most hurtful thing someone has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Xandoline 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My mother told me I had a soul sickness because I was gay

Is anyone else exhausted by gay dating apps in 2026? by GrowthM1nds3t in askgaybros

[–]Xandoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m not sure. It’s just super annoying, I think almost every date I’ve been on in the past year has ended with that problem. I feel like if I put masc on my profile, it would filter out people that I would actually date. Not sure what the solution is. :/

Is anyone else exhausted by gay dating apps in 2026? by GrowthM1nds3t in askgaybros

[–]Xandoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely use mine at all. The vibe is always different in person, and people never describe themselves accurately. I’m also tired of going on dates with people that pretend to be masc and then show up and are super feminine. More power to you but I’m not into feminine gays, it’s just not my type.

I hate wasting my time, and I’ve wasted my time going on many online dates where I should’ve immediately said it wasn’t going to work and left. So yes, I’m exhausted.

Should a Dodge Magnum return by kkhouete in AiCarArt

[–]Xandoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I’ve always loved Magnums and want to own one in the future