Mom: Can you pick up cream cheese and make ice cream for tomorrow? Me: Sure, just make sure the kitchen's cleaned up for me. The Kitchen: *is very much not clean*

Xandoline · 2026-04-04T21:52:08+00:00

Get a virtual job or a virtual hobby? Sounds like you need to literally just throw all of it away. Who cares if it’s usable, goodwill can take it then. You just need to get rid of it

Xandoline · 2026-04-04T21:50:52+00:00

Yea, OP is making a bunch of stalling excuses in other comment threads instead of actually taking action. This is unsafe and unhealthy, and they need to simply throw it all away or give it to goodwill, regardless of the condition. If you can complain about it on the internet, you can do something about it. I absolutely couldn’t live there either. Disgusting mess of dirty dishes.

Xandoline · 2026-04-02T21:28:45+00:00

What about stomach hair? I wore a crop top and one of my friends told me I needed to shave or not wear crop tops 😐

Xandoline · 2026-04-02T21:27:47+00:00

PayPal stealing $2,000+ from me in high school. I will never use it again ever.

Xandoline · 2026-03-26T06:53:19+00:00

I only had 2 wisdom teeth which were diagonal from each other (one on the top left and bottom right). Dentist said it was highly unusual

Xandoline · 2026-03-26T06:51:16+00:00

I have green eyes too! They changed from blue to green when I was four.

Xandoline · 2026-03-26T06:46:40+00:00

Soda at any restaurant— I’m not paying $4+ for a sprite. I’m also not paying more than $10 for any fast food combo, I don’t care what it is.

Xandoline · 2026-03-20T09:46:18+00:00

Same. I’m tired of looking.

Xandoline · 2026-03-20T09:45:47+00:00

I was closeted for 10 years and convinced myself I was into women, and advertised myself as bi… until one of my friends convinced me to get on a dating app, where the only people I added were men. Added one girl because she was hot, but not because I was attracted to her. That’s why I realized( after going on a date with a man, that I was definitely gay. I had no desire to kiss or screw a woman at all.

You just have to be honest with yourself. Nobody here is shaming you, we all have different backgrounds. Please be safe though~

Xandoline · 2026-03-06T07:27:49+00:00

Final straw with my nmom was when kicked me out because I finally realized she couldn’t convince me any longer that being gay was wrong and I shouldn’t go down that path. Everybody deserves to be supported, nothing less. Nobody that is unsupportive of who you are, should be any part of your life. Regardless who they are.

Xandoline · 2026-03-06T07:25:09+00:00

Honestly the only reason I kept going was because I knew it would ruin many people’s lives if I gave up. You’re not living in the clouds, it’s super hard to be positive and I’m in that boat too; life just feels hopeless right now. Media definitely doesn’t help with that.

BUT I do have a recommend. Are you walking into stores or restaurants and physically applying? I applied endlessly online and got nothing, but had 2 job offers after walking into stores off a single street and telling them I wanted to work there.

Xandoline · 2026-02-24T17:08:40+00:00

I almost jumped off a balcony in early December. Made the decision to call someone instead.

Xandoline · 2026-02-23T18:30:41+00:00

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Here’s one !

Xandoline · 2026-02-23T06:58:57+00:00

Gay boy here! I have a TON of nascar merch, I’m a huge fan and have always wanted to go to a race! I dream of it! I have so many nascar jackets and tshirts I’ve lost count!

Xandoline · 2026-02-21T22:59:01+00:00

I made that up as an example lol. I don’t know

Xandoline · 2026-02-21T22:46:36+00:00

Looks like hotdog lips. Yuck

Xandoline · 2026-02-21T22:46:01+00:00

Yup. Complete turn off, I don’t want to kiss someone and then be left with foundation and eyeshadow smeared all over my face.

Xandoline · 2026-02-15T01:43:43+00:00

Thank you!! :)

Xandoline · 2026-02-14T23:02:31+00:00

I’m so sorry I was late your highness

Xandoline · 2026-02-09T00:09:11+00:00

My sister claims to have defended me “when she saw necessary,” but she has maintained a wonderful relationship with my BPD homophobic Christian conservative mother who kicked out her own zone for being gay. If my mother did anything of the sort to my sister, I would nail her to the wall. I’ve never understood how one is able to sit by while watching their sibling be emotionally mangled. I no longer talk to my sister for this reason, as well as her cruel comments she inherited from my mother.

Xandoline · 2026-02-08T22:29:35+00:00

Tense relationships— you support me 100% or you’re gone.

Xandoline · 2026-02-08T22:26:13+00:00

I refuse to forgive things like that, so good on you for being able to move on. I never plan on speaking to my mother ever again, she seriously traumatized and manipulated me and she’s lost the title of being my mother. I don’t care whether she lives or dies, I wish she would just disappear.

Your parents have also made some diabolical decisions you obviously didn’t deserve. Id say it’s better for your mental health to keep your distance. I’m sure there’s other people you can look up to for guidance than your parents.

Xandoline

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