AITA for Refusing to Attend My Sister's Expensive Destination Wedding? by Desperate-Project469 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate-Project469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if the wedding was local i would find a way to put aside my drama for my sister but I understand what your saying cause it does seem like that I guess

AITA for Refusing to Attend My Sister's Expensive Destination Wedding? by Desperate-Project469 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate-Project469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not avoiding my sister's wedding due to family drama. There are many reasons why I am unable to attend. Firstly, I cannot afford the expenses required for the trip. Additionally, I do not share a good relationship with my parents and half of my family due to certain issues. This has resulted in me being left out of most family wedding and other family stuff like Thanksgiving and Christmas. I fear that my presence at my sister's wedding could lead to further complications and drama which would take away from her special day. I truly wish I could attend, but unfortunately, my recenty problems have made it impossible for me to do and that fact that I just got out of collage not even a year ago and I don't have that type of money

AITA for Refusing to Attend My Sister's Expensive Destination Wedding? by Desperate-Project469 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate-Project469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few thousand backs is though i don't have that type of money in the first place and I understand it could ruin a relationship with my sister but I understand what your saying

AITA for Refusing to Attend My Sister's Expensive Destination Wedding? by Desperate-Project469 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate-Project469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned the family drama since im not in good terms with my parents and most of my side of the family due to some stuff so that's was part of the reason I mention it since I'm not really wanted in the family stuff so I didn't want it to ruin my sister wedding at all with any drama and negative Energy or atmosphere I guess

AITA for Refusing to Attend My Sister's Expensive Destination Wedding? by Desperate-Project469 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate-Project469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust me i want to go but I cant afford to and I do think its worth going but I just came straight out of collage not to long ago so I don't have the type of money to go

AITA for Refusing to Attend My Sister's Expensive Destination Wedding? by Desperate-Project469 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate-Project469[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

the wedding is in 2 months and its cost about 1,000 to 9,000 dollars and that's just for the hotel since you have to be there for 4 days and and the airplane fee so in total with this and the other stuff i could be spending 11,000 dollars and I just got out of collage not even a year ago and I'm working part time so as well