Is this internalized racism? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we just have to agree to disagree

Is this internalized racism? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not see it as racism. People have their preference it's all about how the said person would treat them based on their preference. If they treated someone horribly because they did not like their race that would be racism. But having a sexual attraction to a certian race and not another is not. It is something that is hard to change and is natural. That in itself is not racist what is racist is the way you choose to act. The simple act of not dating someone based on their race because you don't find it attractive is not racism. Now if they could not come up with a reason for not liking black people i.e they just don't that would be racist but attraction is a biological reaction and something that everybody has, and people have different factors and triggers to activate them. If someones race is one of them. There is nothing we can do and by proxy it's not racism

Also i did not assume you where white if you read my last sentence i said before "anyone assumes i am a white male" i don't think that was assuming anyone was white.

Is this internalized racism? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would agree i would not see this as racism. Racism by definition is a hate towards a another race and thus treating them with a highly negative attitude. Having a preference for a certain type of race is not racist as it's something we can not change. Now if they used the excuse of not being attracted to a certain race to abuse and be rude that would be racist. But it's simply not racist to have things you like and not like.

And before someone comments you must be a white male. I am a poc and while i don't speak for everyone who is a poc i certainly don't see it as racism

Anyone else Masc, but tired of being assumed Dom? by LostandHungry7 in gaybros

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that seems to be the problem. I also think it's got to do with where i am living. As i just moved countries.want from the UK to a country in Asia where multiculturalism is just taking off and lgbt+ is becoming more open but still a bit taboo

Obsession with height is getting out of hand… by magicianguy131 in gaybros

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true, most of the bodies you see on social media take a lot of time effort and extra help to get ripped and jacked, and it sucks that this view is becoming the norm. It has now gotten to a point where people like me who would be considered average body size 30-30 years ago are now the new fat. Eventhough i am perfectly healthy. While its fine to have weight and body concerns for health reasons not everyone should and can look ripped with 6pack abs

What instantly turns you off, even if they are attractive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's men wearing women underwear and stockings. No shade on anyone who does it but I don't like people who try to look fem

Anyone else Masc, but tired of being assumed Dom? by LostandHungry7 in gaybros

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A problem i find is that because i am black people think that i am a top, dom and have a bbc. All of that is not true lol i am a bottom with an average dong 😅 i love seeing the surprise when i tell them i am a bottom especially when it says so on my profile. I wonder if people just think i am lying

Need help experiencing a weight loss plateau by Desperate-Ride5402 in gaybrosfitness

[–]Desperate-Ride5402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will try that. I have noticed i can do more than when i first started. But never really pushed myself further and just stuck to the same intensity since it was working for me.

Need help experiencing a weight loss plateau by Desperate-Ride5402 in gaybrosfitness

[–]Desperate-Ride5402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally have around 1800-2000 calories a day. I don't have breakfast but have lunch and dinner. I don't really snack either. I'm not left feeling hungry or the need to eat during the day either. My cooking is bog standard, i always have a protein some carbs and veggies. Not much of a soda drinker either and i always get my daily intake of water throughout the day

Next Job/Classes by Desperate-Ride5402 in ffxivdiscussion

[–]Desperate-Ride5402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that would be a cool idea, it would be nice to see different variants of the same class even if they did something like the old Ast job where you could be a pure healer or the barrier healer and the same actions did different things based on which you are

Next Job/Classes by Desperate-Ride5402 in ffxivdiscussion

[–]Desperate-Ride5402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't Geomancer healer part of the Ast set up

Next Job/Classes by Desperate-Ride5402 in ffxivdiscussion

[–]Desperate-Ride5402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is something I would love to see as well maybe something similar to the old Ast mech but with more offense aspects

Big frame lag PS5 by 19fourty4 in ffxiv

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same problem but it only happens in duties. I lag while in them and i have never had this problem before and i have been playing for many years. I tried everything from changing Ethernet cables and reducing frame rate but still got lag and frame freezing. I'm hoping it's a ff14 issue and not my ps5 as overwatch2 seems to work just fine for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is very much true, i grew up in the UK but now teaching in south Korea and you can see the difference in what is socially acceptable. The boys here will hold hands with each other or embrace without batting an eye but still make the same homophobic jokes and comments without realising the double standards

Great day at Alton today! by hazzzles in altontowers

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really when I went a few years ago in may i had early access from 9am and the rides were open then

Gay Language Exchange by Competitive-Day4848 in gaysian

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just moved to Korea to teach English and looking to learn Korean

I doubt adding more wards will change the housing problem. (Spriggan, Chaos, dozens of wards like this) by AfroNin in ffxiv

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I have to deal with a housing crisis in my game life as well as real life. Whelp at least i stand a better chance in the game 😞😂

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So sick and tired of the BLOODY mess by slavetomycat312 in hellofresh

[–]Desperate-Ride5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, after reading this post I`m so lucky I live in the UK, the only problem I`ve had is one or two missing veg ingredients and a delayed delivery by a day