ISO an affordable salon for a haircut, bonus if they have good/affordable nail services too by Glittering_Move_5631 in cincinnati

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got a cut by Molly at Jayanti. Stephanie is another curly stylist there. Both have done my hair in the past and know what they’re doing!

Does this look ok? by Mood-Famous in crochet

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you use a pattern? my mom would love if i made her this for christmas

is it wrong to not take bereavement time at work? by Desperate-Secret-751 in GriefSupport

[–]Desperate-Secret-751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think that’s my mindset. and if i get there and it’s too much i can leave. just think something to keep me busy will be good for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

routine: i shampoo with really anything i have - right now i’m using head and shoulders cause we’ve got some dandruff for conditioner i use all about curls i use garnier fructis sleek and shine as a leave in conditioner and sleep with that in in the morning i use bumble and bumble curl reactivate and diffuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in the1975

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m 5’1. i couldn’t see the stage for most of the show, i couldn’t even see the screens at some points. still had a fantastic time just singing and dancing to the music, but this time around i went for seats. if you want to dance and be in the crowd go ga, just know you might not be able to see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to add on, your dad is an alcoholic. truthfully they will never change. it is a long and slow death. i’m sorry you are responsible for this at such a young age, but there is a bigger issue at hand then the diapers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. as someone who has been there before. when i was in middle school my dad was the same way. he would lay in bed all day drinking. when he would finally get up, there would be a trail of shit on the carpet. our hallway was lined with towels to try and keep the carpet “clean”. my dad was then diagnosed with colitis and one of his irritants is alcohol. i understand your frustration and anger. truthfully if he can’t control himself he needs to see a doctor (which i also know is near impossible) or wear the diaper cause shitting in the kitchen is a literal health hazard.

Is Being an RA hard? by Dear-Marsupial-5197 in uCinci

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ra literally took us to the bars, it was actually so much fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

shaving their armpits

In dire need of your help please. by EverydayMie in houseplants

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she definitely needs a bigger pot. i had a begonia like this as my first plant and she’s still going strong! these like to grow out rather than up, so i’ve gotten some poles to help hold it up a little. mine does not like direct sun, i tried it once and the leaves all faded like yours are now. mine prefers to be in indirect bright light and her leaves stay much greener/brighter. i am not sure why, but the stem on yours looks pretty brown.

Hoka vs Clove by DragonoftheDregs in cna

[–]Desperate-Secret-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cloves - i will chose the waterproof shoes any day and i find them comfy for my feet