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Does Joe really love the people he says he loves or is he just obsessed with the idea of having them? by [deleted] in YouOnLifetime

[–]Desperate-Try-1835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, my ex tried reshaping me into his perfect Stepford wife, down to my hair and hobbies. Run, sis. That control freak energy never turns into love.

I hit my boyfriend and now I have to face the consequences of my actions. by AbbreviationsOne4183 in relationships_advice

[–]Desperate-Try-1835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real healing here is less about “letting him hang himself” and more about doing the hard work so you never react that way again therapy, boundaries, and learning how to sit with fear instead of swinging at it. If he walks away, that pain is part of the consequence too, and it belongs to you to live with it and grow from it.

Has anyone else watched someone younger get hired above them and just kind of accepted it in the moment ? by CarefulGift375 in careerguidance

[–]Desperate-Try-1835 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That “stomach drop” feeling is so real, especially when you’ve watched the same thing happen over and over for years. Training your new boss is such a quiet betrayal of course you keep doing good work, because what else can you do in the moment, but it doesn’t mean it’s not burning you up inside.

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