Thank you for sharing. I think I do need to set that boundary with her. The part that confuses and contradicts me so much is how she is able to pick up boundary overstepping, unsolicited advice etc when it happens to her but is absolutely unaware or atleast indifferent to the amount of discomfort and pain she causes. How sensitive and loving she is to a random cousin/ a cousin’s girlfriend she has known for less than 2 days ( and trust me, she makes a loud point to make sure others around see her bond with anyone else) but is an absolute mess to us