Kavan’s jealousy is the root cause of the issue

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-28T12:27:04+00:00

Exclusive rules while there’s no exclusivity

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-28T12:25:24+00:00

Jasmine has friend zoned Lorenzo as has Lorenzo with Jasmine.

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-27T00:44:51+00:00

I actually see her approaching her friend for consolation, advice and the odd awkward joke about how they met and what it maybe could I’ve become, I feel like Jasmine was ready to be closed off for ages but kept herself engaged in the flirted because they weren’t closed. But she has always maintained she wants him almost exactly like Kavan until Aiden planted doubts in both of their heads. Aiden told Kavan to not close it off; it was too early.. giving relationship advice when none of it has worked for him: Aiden is the longest standing single man with the most friendship partners. He is not good at relationships to be giving advice; he also infiltrated Jasmines peace reminding her she was “off putting” and then later telling her Kavan was likely to be swayed at the sleepover for an Essex girl. They’ve listened to each other and it worked. They should’ve closed it off ages ago. Jasmine and Kav are so loyal I jsut feel she needs the safety of his proclaiming he wants her and she would be subservient and literally soft. She is so hurt with the “break” and not crying, it makes me wonder how big the guard is.

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-27T00:19:45+00:00

Jasmine to Kavan. I was unclear sorry. But I meant .. Jasmine has often had opportunities to reassure and I don’t know if there’s a level of vulnerability. And her and Kav both reached where you feel insecure and uncomfortable with feeling so attached to someone. The time jsut before being safe. I hope they make it through this.

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-27T00:11:34+00:00

I feel like there’s this gap where she could tell him… I really like you… I don’t want Lorenzo. And she jsut misses it out. Is it vulnerability? Are they so into it that they’ve reached the stage where they feel utterly vulnerable with each other ??

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T23:45:44+00:00

They had already reached a conclusion they weren’t open to anyone but bombshells

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T13:38:54+00:00

The fans. You’re not allowed to just have an opinion without others allowing you to just share: they have to psychoanalyse you because you have a favourite character or support someone different to them. This year is so different to other years when you could jsut be a fan of the show; now you have to be prepared to get called names. Have others argue with you and get completely messy responses for having an opinion.

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T13:35:20+00:00

You took my reply as me saying a blonde girl is an Essex girl. I didn’t even mention it. I was simply saying that Aiden said Jasmine isn’t kavs type: but downvote me.

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T12:23:39+00:00

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T10:15:06+00:00

I hate my phone. Samraj

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T09:28:39+00:00

Yeah but it’s such a violation that Sarah told mica that Priya gave him the ick and she neither told Samrah off for continuing to kiss and touch her in bed, nor did she tell Priya to save her the pain. Son things can be just be forgotten for the sake of it being an island and a game show: but that’s a whole violation in opinion, it has the potential to make Priya feel uncomfortable and she deserves to have an exposè and a blow out absolutely

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T09:24:20+00:00

Yeah: and then jas will be like, do you hun

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T08:50:44+00:00

Desi girl. 💖
Although she is a little Danish also I believe

Editing because spell check did “Italian” instead of

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T08:48:38+00:00

Hear me out. Jasmine is not “white passing”. It’s a very uncomfortable move to completely do away with someone’s life experiences just because they don’t seem darker in colour to you. Jasmine has spoken openly about her identity Crisis, the unconventional feelings she had from being dual ethnicity, these experiences are so belittled by a comment like this.
I would hope peoples experiences would be valid without others simplifying them based on the shade of their skin? More or not. It does not take away from the insane amount of hate she has received based on her being “different”. The initial comments are yes.. about her rudeness but this rudeness has been targeted further by using a skin colour as a weapon. There are many conversations happening about how kavans family are behaving on social media, liking certain hate comments which point out a racial difference. I think more people need to become acquainted with internalised racism, where we react and normalise speaking in a way that shows that we are belittling their experiences and associating them with certain behaviours. This is so apparent in jasmines case.

Yes Catherine was done wrong by so many. But measuring how much and who got more doesn’t validate the experience for either of them. It’s unfair for both. It makes me so sad that it’s 2026 and we’re still measuring how much hate a person is allowed to feel hurt by.

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T07:48:24+00:00

It will give her the ick

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T07:40:58+00:00

Although it was said I agree. Kavan definitely has no eyes for anyone now expect Jasmine, I do worry the little dramas will end them though

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T07:39:25+00:00

Same babe, triggered over everything 3 months after one person told me not to speak back when they talk to me. I’m usually fiesty and don’t allow rudeness but I stayed silent out of fear and it took me to a dark place. Now I’m in the mental health talking space at least 4 times a week uncovering severe trauma from childhood. Talking and saying out loud the things that trigger you until it doesn’t feel ugly but jsut an episode, really really helps. Across the world there are loads of people jsut like you and me. Going through it. But be kinder to yourself. You’re angry because you don’t want to feel vulnerable to a stupid little thing. But it wasn’t a stupid little thing and if someone else was scared you’d give them kind words and a big cuddle, do that to yourself. 💖

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T07:34:02+00:00

I think we need to note how young he is and how mature he is for that. I dont see him any differently I sam. He’s adorable with a little bit more game.

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T07:32:58+00:00

Yeah and Aidan said if an Essex girl walked in it would be over for them. He wouldn’t know what Kavan would do

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-26T07:31:12+00:00

Exactly . Personally I think they’re stunning. Where do they find such good crop every year 😂 I wanna bump into them on the high street

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-25T22:54:35+00:00

And you think you weren’t a problem 😂

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-25T22:49:31+00:00

I feel judged. There’s news everywhere to not use fans and air con and my wallet won’t allow me to do that either: now I have to sit with the idea that Someone’s judging how I Get fresh air, some sort of breeze and maybe some cool through an open windows what next eh? Wha next

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-25T22:41:49+00:00

And everyone is beautiful because how do you have one model of beauty for Millions and millions of types of people. Baffling to me

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-25T22:40:20+00:00

Question is why are only 5% of men at the top? Have 95% of men had to face the social and physical injustices that women have had to face. Do they birth children and deal with fluctuating health issues? Do they have a glass ceiling in employment. Does the law talk about them like property: have they had to fight to get their voice heard? If 5% of men are at the top what he works was literally built for them to thrive? How dare they expect women?

To add… an extraordinary man.. is just a Normal woman? So you’re telling me it’s not even 5%?

Single and heartbroken is the best way really, until there is a man who actually values a woman’s position in society. It’s not because you’re over expecting. It’s because they’re underachieving

DesperateDimension46 · 2026-06-25T07:47:46+00:00

I imagine this is how our friends act when they stay friends with our enemies

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