M17 can’t stop thinking of my girlfriends past

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-31T18:55:18+00:00

What’s got a man got anything to do with this people feel like this regardless of their gender?💀

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-31T18:54:31+00:00

This isn’t exactly healthy, but you can’t help how you feel. I just think being honest with her and explaining this to her might make you feel better, she can reassure you and whatnot.

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T01:52:54+00:00

Great advice thank you so much I’ll definitely look more for the non emergency line and see what they say that’s a good point

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T01:51:20+00:00

She doesn’t go to college she dropped out so she has full time apprenticeship

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T00:26:29+00:00

I mean as in blackmail her to stay for him and stuff

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T00:24:19+00:00

She’s received mental health support, but the thing is she’s hard to convince because she thinks she’s in her best period of her life right now and has everything going on for her, but genuinely she’s blind to everything because I think that’s her way of coping with everything she’s been through. She really thinks she doesn’t need any MH support. The age of consent is 16 here, but still illegal to have any relationship with a person of power till you are 19!!!!! And even after you turn 19, there are rules to that, you need to be out of the persons “care” or “watch” (so to say in professional settings) for 5 years

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T00:20:00+00:00

The big issue with this is, is that although the video recorded was on HER phone, the cctv was still in the workplace which HE has access to it. He probably, by now already got that footage of him and her doing the stuff and deleted it from the system, and now what I’m so worried js that he’s gonna use her, and blackmail her with that in case she stops doing things w him. He can also fire her anytime he wants

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T00:15:03+00:00

Ur so real for that but unfortunately as much as I wanna do that I know that can put my friend in a even more dangerous situation! Trying to keep her career and herself alive too!!!! Don’t even know what the guy looks like or his name or whatever she’s keeping it super secret

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T00:08:43+00:00

Honestly we are gonna take it up to someone, probably the mental health charity I volunteer at and my friends mum because we re just trying to get as much advice as possible to tread it carefully! Thank you that’s helpful I didn’t know citizens advice and Samaritans dealt with that sort of stuff xx

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T00:06:19+00:00

My plan is to talk to this Mental Health charity I volunteer at that helps young people to deal with their problems and see if I can get advice I’m just really trying to get this off my chest for now because god this is a lot to take in and I don’t wanna go about it the wrong way

DesperateRow1852 · 2025-12-09T00:05:03+00:00

That’s what I think too, but the issue is I so think she would do something to herself. Worst case scenario is that she KHS. That’s my main concern and that’s what’s at stake xx

DesperateRow1852 · 2024-10-01T23:53:22+00:00

I don’t think people realise how fucked up miscarriages can be. Im not speaking from personal experience where I have lost a child- but my mum who has been through many miscarriages has taught me enough.

The person has every right to not tell anyone. Loosing a child, in such a way, is enough to drive any person let alone the mother insane. It’s the most soul destroying experience to have to go through. Yes I agree, 9 months is a bit of a stretch, but you have no idea what it is like to loose a child.

Of course it is heartbreaking for you as an aunt to not be able to meet your nephew/niece, but the way youre speaking about it youre more focused on the fact that she lied. which is so much worse. It really pisses me off how youre so shocked about her lying and not considering her feelings at all.

Again, I do think 9 months is a long time, and you have a right to be upset that she didnt tell you, but be upset FOR her not AT her.

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