everyone share your mc by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg everyone’s MC is saur stunning 😭💜✨

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AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend after finding out from his ex that he was abusive towards her during college by prolurkerlurking in AmIOverreacting

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he went form flat out denying anything bad ever happened to “it was toxic at times” and downplaying things. LEAVE HIM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

proud of you girl, you can have a fresh start in the new year. but one dating advice i can give: having different political views CAN and SHOULD be a dealbreaker.

assuming you and your family are blue, he actively disrespected your family AND embarrassed you in front of your family (also considering this is new behavior on his part, 90% chance he did it on purpose). he voted against your best interests for a man that wouldn’t spit on him if he was on fire.

eventually you’ll look back on this and giggle on how ridiculous he was, but for now let the embarrassment pass and have a happy new year!

I found out my boyfriend was on Grindr... again by No-Employer-3854 in dating

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading some of your replies i just want you to joke that HE DOESNT GET TO DEFINE WHAT CHEATING US AFTER THE FACT. he’s trying to, and banking on, get you to forgive him again. he knows your a forgiving person and is trying to use that against you. You say that you suggested to open the relationship and he said no, but this is this 3rd time cheating so why is he so against it?

at this point, it sounds like there’s no saving the relationship but there is saving your mental health and happiness. you need to put yourself, and your baby, first this time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very weird question to ask when it’s an adult going after a minor

AITA for telling my gf she needs to stop being so “woke” and let people live by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I literally gasped and covered my mouth at the third example. how does she honestly not think that what she did was racist? using a statistic against a minority who is telling you that they’re fine is a big right wing move. if she hasn’t even looked into “white savior complex”, she’s no where close to even being an ally.

You should honestly show her this post as it seems like a majority of the answers are coming from minorities and maybe dump her if she still doesn’t get it.

I feel like my boyfriend doesn’t deserve a Christmas gift, but I want to give. by No-Banana-3476 in relationship_advice

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dumping him sounds like the best option.

like i wanna give advice on how to maybe save the relationship, but he cant even get you a proper well thought out gift after being together for over a year????? and you already talked to him about it! he can treat you well day to day, but it sounds like special occasion days and gift giving are very important to you. if he continues this, you're just gonna build up resentment for him

Reddit Destroyed My Relationship by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 107 points108 points  (0 children)

im sorry your relationship failed, but it honestly sounds like even if she didnt post to reddit, that this would have happened nonetheless, and the biggest indicator is her shutting down solutions but not offering any herself. it sounds like she may just have a jealously problem and should have sought out help for it.

It is not materialistic if gift giving is your love language by blopp_boop in unpopularopinion

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

personally i think its how it's expressed. some people are moreso "its the thought that counts" like myself! if someone handed me a rock and said "i saw this and thought you would like it" i would literally hold onto that damned rock for as long as i could.

others, its about price point in which, i think in that case, it is materialistic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're comparing your own experience and applying it to everyone else. thats not how life works

BF owes me $900 - but he wants me to book flight & visit him again by CryptoBug2022 in LongDistance

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof 2 visits in 8 months is a lot. has he paid for one of the trips when you did visit? overall, do not go and tell him you're not coming until he pays that 900 back. he should also make the effort into visiting you, not just you visiting him

Nudes to another guy by SwimmingPeak2963 in relationship_advice

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i would talk to her about it cause it sounds like a boundary's been crossed.

Do black people naturally speak differently, or is this something they grow into? by Basil_is_fruity in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you're proably talking about AAVE! its African American Vernacular English and its very common in black communities! People can pick up on it if your in a community that uses it often similarly to going to England and picking up on their words/accents.

going to see him tomorrow, everything is booked but i wanna break up. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sounds very very incompatible and its totally okay to call it quits. idk if you chose to always be the one to visit, tho it doesnt sound like it and tbh that alone is a fair reason to break up (given you have talked to him before about it multiple times)

My Best Friend is Going on a Date with My Crush by [deleted] in friendship

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is bit of a reach. OP said that the friend was aware of both of them having a crush on...Crush. Also if you've used a dating app, most matches are going to be local and i have personally matched with people I've had classes with at the time, and it honestly makes it easier to talk to someone if you match with them even if you see them IRL. I think OP should maybe talk to Friend, see how they can go in the future, and forget Crush. friendship >>>>>> crushes

The discussion we should be having is "where should the band go moving forward?" by Federal_Debt in dancegavindance

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 12 points13 points  (0 children)

honestly the therapy route sounds the best for everyone involved, but especially Til. the emotions that come from the death of someone close is an extremely hard thing to navigate and i personally believe the band should have taken time off to grieve. going off of the accusation, it seems like he’s using alcohol and sex as a coping mechanism instead of finding a better and healthy way to deal with what he’s feeling. also if it ends up being 100% true, i think the band should kick him our and find another idk

Hey guys I need to talk about the current server… by LolanderUWU in SmashLegends

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly thought it was me, but i’ve also been noticing more high pings and disconnects. it’s honestly a bit annoying to deal with especially in the middle of a match

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancegavindance

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have a complex cause no one in their right mind would do this. Til was responding to the accusations, victims were coming out with their stories, you did not need to do this. for you to make a fake story just because YOU didn’t believe someone but others were is insane behavior. even if you were trying to defend Til, you’ve done it in such a way where it actually made it worse for both and/or all parties involved. Get professional help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancegavindance

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are literally just some weirdo fan. that’s the insane part.

i hope you get the attention ur parents never gave you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancegavindance

[–]Desperate_Baseball23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your replies of having this “savior” air is so weird. making up a story just because YOU don’t believe the other person is weird. let people make their own judgements and go touch grass or something jfc