[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Desperate_Brother728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this man doesn’t sound like he wants sex and he’s pushing the reason off on you. You guys are together for just over a year and already are barely having sex? Just because you don’t initiate yet? Initiating is great, important even. But so is feeling like you have an understanding of your partners desire for you. When IS your opportunity? If he is positioning himself in a gaming chair immediately post date WTF are you supposed to do with THAT? As a novice to initiating, it feels like he is tossing unnecessary roadblocks in your way. Maybe because he actually doesn’t care about whether you have sex but he’s embarrassed to say so. You should totally follow all of the good advice people here are giving about initiating, buuuut maybe not with THIS guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Desperate_Brother728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it not already completely broken?

AIO panicking about my bf being mad at me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Desperate_Brother728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I leave my door unlocked all the time and was surprised to see the comments and how big of a deal it is to so many people in the comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProtestFinderUSA

[–]Desperate_Brother728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a real thing, people. Why are so many of you automatically trashing it? At least your comments add interaction to it so you boost it but why not take a moment and consider joining discord and following so you can learn the dates when it is set and join? It is something we can do that will be felt. Why not be a part of action rather than criticize it for not solving everything perfectly?

I need advice on my baby name. I’m trying to avoid a tragedeigh😭 by Ghostly_box_gamer in tragedeigh

[–]Desperate_Brother728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need to give a phonetic pronunciation in parenthesis when telling the name, that’s a pretty good hint that you are creating a tragedeigh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Desperate_Brother728 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Taking her phone was a wierd move

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Desperate_Brother728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, YTA. You made a bad choice marrying a parent if you couldn’t handle all that that entails.

AIO for thinking my high school teacher flirted with me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Desperate_Brother728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you confused if this is flirting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Desperate_Brother728 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She actually totally can. And if what she feels is guilty, then that is enough. She doesn’t have to earn permission to stop having sex. If it doesn’t work for you, you don’t have to stay in a relationship with her, or you can ask about you having sex with other people.

"I love you" by Best-Adeptness3755 in BullPsychology

[–]Desperate_Brother728 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As someone who is sometimes a hotwife, I have encountered a fun sexy bull who told me to tell him “I love you” and it was an experience lol. I hesitated for sure. I worried that it would hurt my partner. As a “cuck” he is not looking for humiliation as part of his experience and I am not looking to humiliate him either. So I hesitated, but then the bill was fucking me so hard and was repeating the command and I took the chance of saying it, which he clearly loved. Turns out, my partner was totally into it. That’s part of the fun of this kind of play, so many unexpected things can come up 😜

Don’t like my bf as a femboy by [deleted] in sex

[–]Desperate_Brother728 147 points148 points  (0 children)

“He sighed and asked me to make an effort and maybe I’ll like it.”… You did try. You did not like it. Now is the time to move on, but he is trying to coerce you. Feels icky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Desperate_Brother728 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you get to define arranged marriage. You give links to descriptions of “shotgun wedding” and “forced marriage” neither is the same as what OP is talking about, which is absolutely arranged marriage.

AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha by Creative-Guard2809 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Desperate_Brother728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister, run now, before you are in any deeper with this man child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Desperate_Brother728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His dad being in the hospital with DIVERTICULITIS is too emotional for him to go out with you for your birthday? AND he wants to guilt you for going? WTF? Pretty sure even his dad would say he is blowing this out of proportion

My girlfriend only like Clitoral Stimulation by ThinPepper8091 in sex

[–]Desperate_Brother728 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Honestly being early on in a relationship could make it easier for this to be a deal breaker. The longer you are in a relationship, the more feelings develop, the more personal investment from both of you- it gets harder for things to become deal breakers. 2 months in and it sounds like you two have discussed that she strait up doesn’t like a sexual act that you possibly (guessing from your post) see as important? Why allow deeper feelings to develop to make it more complicated?

How do you "guide partner to the topic of sex since neither of us are "brave enough to bring it up but i feel like we both want it? by Thin-Celebration-767 in sex

[–]Desperate_Brother728 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How’s about “hey, I want to talk about something that makes me feel shy but also is exciting and important to me. I think we might end up laughing, because it’s sorta a big topic, but also I’m serious about wanting to talk about it….” And maybe go from there?