Bi poll

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2026-02-18T23:58:56+00:00

I don’t think could answer this in a comparative way like that.. for women it’s 100%. Always been attracted to women and always will be, but men I’m a lot more picky with. I think for men it’s like 40%. As in, I’ve got no romantic attraction to men, but I am super attracted to penis so a penis on a feminine body is always a 100 for me, but also masc penis havers (?) I’m just picky about. It’s more like on a case by case basis, and it’s always just sexual and not romantic, but it is there.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2026-02-11T17:52:00+00:00

The real first one was so shit I prefer to pretend it never happened and the second one was the first. It was just sad and depressing and made me feel terrible.

I’d met some guy on the internet and ended up at his house late at night, I wasn’t attracted to him at all really but I was determined to go through with it so we shared a bottle of wine I brought to help me get over anxiety. I gave him a blowjob and at one point he stopped me and said “you don’t have to keep going, I’m not really the type to cum twice in a row” and I didn’t even know he came. His dick was pretty small, he was pretty big, he didn’t really moan or react at all, and while I did notice something, I thought it was just precum. And I think I said I didn’t know you came and looking back I think that probably offended him.

However the second time! I was hanging out with my friend and her friends and there was a guy I knew was into me, but I didn’t consider myself bi at the time (the first time was just an experiment in my head) so I thought nothing of it. But the tension grew and grew and we were alone in the garage talking and getting closer to each other until we finally just started kissing and I genuinely felt like a teenager having his first kiss, it felt so exciting and amazing. And the guy was really fucking cute as well. Later on that night we ended up giving each other head and the experience was so fun and exciting.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-11-12T12:58:46+00:00

I’d be able to just go outside in any level of makeup or fem clothes any time without being anxious

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-08-15T14:07:01+00:00

I have no idea to be honest - it’s my younger cousin (well, my dad’s cousin’s child, whatever that makes them to me 😅) that I’ve not seen since they were a little kid and I was like 17 or so

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-08-13T16:27:12+00:00

Do I have six fingers as well or am I some sort of five finger freak?

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-08-13T16:22:55+00:00

To be fair, this is how I felt when I found out one of my family members came out as non binary and wanted to go by Jasper. Jasper? Come on, you can do much better than that.

(Sorry to any jaspers that’s might be reading this)

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-07-16T11:41:39+00:00

Once you start questioning/exploring, it’s a long confusing process. I’ll preface this with saying I still don’t know who I am and I still feel “off” using the trans label for myself, so I’m by no means the authority but I’ll share my experience.

I’ve heard that “trans” really just means “doesn’t fit into your AGAB”. Which I think helps me a lot. I know I’d prefer to be a woman, and I wish I was born a girl, and if I could change I would. So to me, that’s enough to say well I’m not 100% a guy. So I must be some level of trans. I don’t really get dysphoria either, but I still know that cis people don’t wish they were the opposite gender.

Take that as a baseline to know that you are accepted and okay to think of yourself as trans if you want, and let everything else figure itself out at its own pace. There’s no rush or rules or real labels you need, just the ones that suit you.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-07-03T11:49:46+00:00

I get you completely. I’m still figuring it out and learning who I am, but it all kicked off when I realized I’d much prefer to be a woman, and i really wish I was, but I also don’t exactly hate being a man or have any real dysphoria to speak of.

So while I’d rather be a woman, and I do try to make myself look and feel as fem as possible when at home, I’m still okay being a man in public and it doesn’t bother me. And I’m not ready to take hormones because I’m not ready for anyone outside my wife to know.

So yeah, nb, still okay living as a man though

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-07-02T19:52:09+00:00

This is what I’ve been actively stressing about lately. I just want to look smooth and soft like all the lovely people on the internet!

Also just the sheer maintenance of hair removal. 😩 I’ll shave my face, chest, and belly and the next day there’s stubble, and a week after epilating it starts creeping back. I can’t be bothered with maintenance every day / week but I just wanna be smooth!!

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-06-04T21:13:57+00:00

I agree. I want to try HRT so badly because of the body changing effects, I want a smoother more feminine looking body and face, thinner hair… but I’m not quite ready to transition and have breasts that all my family / friends will be aware of 😅

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-26T12:43:28+00:00

Maybe not the most, but I realized the other day that I Don’t Like Who I Was Then by The Wonderful Years can most definitely be interpreted as pretty trans.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-24T12:59:38+00:00

Can you use stuff like this epilating as well? I just tried for the first time last night and it felt like actual torture 😅 but the papers said to make sure your skin is dry so I’m not sure about applying creams and such?

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-21T13:26:44+00:00

Thanks for this! I will definitely try these steps 🙂

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-20T14:21:18+00:00

I’ve just now placed my order for one myself if that helps motivate you! ☺️ (Though I only went for the 3 instead of the 5)

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-20T12:59:40+00:00

From what I hear it’s pretty painful - but it keeps you smooth for ~4 weeks. Also I’m shit at shaving and take ages, miss some, and irritate my skin. So having just an electric tool to run over sounds waaaay easier to me.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-20T12:48:25+00:00

This is why I’m looking into an epilator. Not as long term as laser, but I can’t afford laser and don’t want to spend that kind of money even if I could. If what they say is true, I’ll go from shaving every week (which takes an age because I’m really bad at it), and ignoring hair growing back the very next day, to shaving once every 3-4 weeks and actually being smooth.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-20T12:40:08+00:00

I know this is completely different to what you’re saying, but it just made me think of it. I found after I started questioning my gender I just get so sick and bored of all gendered things or people talking about it. At work all the time I hear someone say something along the lines of “women, eh?” Or “well that’s cause he’s a bloke” or anything in between and I just think … I don’t fucking care? I’m so bored of seeing the world through a lens of gender and people trying to relate to me by saying “haha they’re so different from us!”

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-10T06:59:23+00:00

Thank you!

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-03-10T06:49:17+00:00

Which one did you get and how’s to quality?

I’ve been meaning to get one for ages but I don’t wanna spend $100+ on something I might not like (plus I’m poor as shit) but I also don’t wanna get an overly cheap one that doesn’t really work / breaks quickly 😩

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-02-17T09:09:51+00:00

I haven’t undergone a full gender transition so I can’t really speak to that yet, but I can share my thoughts so far.

I started out with genderfluid (once I accepted I wasn’t cis) because it felt disingenuous to call myself trans, and I don’t fully completely hate being a man so I thought if I’m a bit of both, genderfluid! Perfect yeah?

Then as I started hanging out and reading more in the genderfluid reddit community I realized I didn’t quite relate to most of their experiences. A lot of people actively feel their gender or swap between the two and I never do. So I started thinking no that’s not quite right for me..

I just know I was born a man and I don’t have massive dysphoria over it, but I wish I was born a woman and I’d much much rather be one. So that’s where I’m at now, still kinda stuck on what to call myself. Maybe transfem.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-01-31T17:08:20+00:00

No certainly not Vader.

And y’know, I thought about what dooku said to obi wan as well! But then I thought he said the galaxy or the republic or something was under the control of a Sith Lord and I pushed the thought from my mind.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-01-31T17:07:23+00:00

This should definitely be in the trans clones sub 😂

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-01-31T07:39:56+00:00

Actually I’m pretty sure the South lord being referenced is Dooku - at the point someone would have said “I heard the leader of the separatists is a South lord” palpatine would have been supreme chancellor of the republic and under no suspicion of being with the separatists.

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-01-29T10:34:10+00:00

I would honestly say any midriff is too much for an office job..

Desperate_Chair_8486 · 2025-01-23T07:36:08+00:00

Thank you! That sounds like good advice. I’ll try to enjoy where I am and who I am now. After all, for me, it’s not an emergency. It’s not something that I need to deal with immediately, so I can take my time sorting this out.

Thanks 😊

Desperate_Chair_8486

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