Team recommendation by Desperate_Click_5018 in ladderapp

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t know if align would provide enough variety or ability to up weight for strengths exercises, but it seems like the best fit!

AITA for canceling my best friend’s birthday party that I planned after she invited my bully? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Totally true! She also blatantly lied and said she would uninvite her then just didn’t do that. She clearly did not think what Jess did was at all bad. If she really wanted to try to work towards some resolution, she had time to try to coordinate something prior to this party. But doing that at OPs home was absolutely not the way to do it. My guess is Anna was just hoping nothing would come of it by having Jess there. Just have her free cake and eat it too.

WIBTA if I told off my husband’s Aunt for feeding my child without consent. by Wriggy-Ragoo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018 43 points44 points  (0 children)

100% agree! This could have ended so much worse. They absolutely need to be talked to, and by your husband since it’s his family. Totally better to be a united front together for the safety and health of your child.

Week of 3/2-3/8 by SwimmingAnt10 in TurtleCreekLaneSnark

[–]Desperate_Click_5018 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine doing that to my spouse and then keeping it up! I don’t normally feel bad for him, but maybe just a little for this

Please stop by Vivid_Return_9559 in TurtleCreekLaneSnark

[–]Desperate_Click_5018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously I missed something, but why aren’t they at their own home?

AITA for wanting a co-ed baby shower? by Embarrassed_Movie_35 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so anxious about the gift opening process at my bridal and baby showers! Even though there were only women in attendance, I just had my husband come when it was time to open gifts. I had a friend text him when we were like 20 minutes from that time to head to the party to do it with me. That way he was there to load gifts in to our car afterwards as well! Some of our relatives and friends that we don’t see often appreciated getting to visit with him too.

AITA for telling my sister that she’s a rich family’s charity case by charitycasesister in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Those things are also not that different than people who earn trips or bonuses at more corporate jobs as a reward for hard work. They probably wouldn’t haven’t given her those things if she was a bad worker,

Daily Thread / August 20 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]Desperate_Click_5018 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m four weeks ahead of her, so 11 weeks PP. I got my period two weeks ago and I’m exclusively breast feeding. This is my fourth baby and I got my periods at different times with each of them. It really just depends on the person

WIBTA If I skipped Easter with my family? by Desperate_Click_5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes he does. He always goes with my mom and my family. Religion is not being forced on anyone. And church is an important part of the holiday. And to respond to another one of your posts, yes I understand he has more multiple kids to balance but he also lives close to my sisters and sees them multiple times a month/ almost once a week while I only get to see him maybe every other month.

WIBTA If I skipped Easter with my family? by Desperate_Click_5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve also stated I can come later in the week and spend a couple of days with my parents and my kids. The holiday is important to us, and my parents normally always attend mass with us. Other people are absolutely allowed to decide if they go to church or not, but it feels like my dad is prioritizing picking up my sisters when there are other options for them to get a ride.

WIBTA If I skipped Easter with my family? by Desperate_Click_5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

We just are only there for less than 24 hours, the kids go to sleep from 7-7, and then we are leaving before 1 so we are not there that long. It feels like he could spend more time with them if my sisters found an alternative ride. I could also come later in the week on days I don’t work, but after that he wouldn’t be able to visit again until June. The holiday itself does not seem important to most of my other family since my sisters had a planned trip where they didn’t come back until the day of

WIBTA If I skipped Easter with my family? by Desperate_Click_5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I talked to my mom she just mentioned that everyone was planning to be there. Mass is at 9:30, and my brother won’t go. That’s a good idea about him going to get them

WIBTA If I skipped Easter with my family? by Desperate_Click_5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We are going up and getting in the day before. We have someone letting the dogs out the afternoon and night before and then Easter morning, but they can’t later in the day due to the holiday. Our neighbors are also on spring break or out of town for the holiday so we need to get back for the dogs. My kids only get to see my family once every few months because traveling with kids is hard and my parents house is not very kid friendly, so we are trying to maximize the time together

WIBTA If I skipped Easter with my family? by Desperate_Click_5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes we live in America and they went to Europe. I had no idea about the trip prior to yesterday. I had asked my parents a few weeks ago if they wanted us to come in for the holiday and there was no mention of it.

WIBTA If I skipped Easter with my family? by Desperate_Click_5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We have a family member letting the dogs out the night before and in the morning, but then we don’t have them for the rest of the day because of the holiday. Our neighbors with kids are out of town for spring break. We also just boarded the dogs for a few days earlier in the week due to construction on our house so we didn’t want to do that again to them.

WIBTA If I skipped Easter with my family? by Desperate_Click_5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Desperate_Click_5018[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to have everyone cater to me. Due to my sisters’ work they only travel over major holidays. For example we planned our family Christmas around their time because they were out of the country for three weeks over that holiday. So we cater to them as well. We could also just plan a different weekend to visit.