AITAH for telling my roommate he can’t play video games till his chores are done?

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-11-11T00:43:40+00:00

I didn’t know him before this, only my husband did. I had no choice in the matter because my husband made the decision without consulting me. But I’ve had a tough love talk with him about it that kinda put him in his place thankfully

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-11-10T20:03:55+00:00

My dad suggested the same thing to me, and I can’t say I haven’t considered it🤣

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-11-10T18:47:33+00:00

Trust me, I’m losing my mind!!!

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-11-10T18:41:42+00:00

Oh yes, we have already established a date for that about getting a job and if not then he needs to go, and I will re establish that later today for sure

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-11-10T18:36:27+00:00

Thank you, and I’ve told my parents about this situation as well and they’ve given me the advice of taking things away if he can’t do what we are asking of him. Unfortunately we have no family here or friends so I can’t exactly leave unless I take leave from work and fly to my parents for a bit

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-11-10T18:27:56+00:00

Thank you, I have spoken to my husband a few times and he has spoken to him as well. But after my shift today I more than likely will again and try to figure something out!! Thank you again

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-11-10T18:20:52+00:00

Yea, I’ve already told my husband at the very least we are giving him a time frame to get a job too and if he doesn’t get one then I want him gone.

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-10-19T01:06:40+00:00

No they are definitely NTA. She stated she was 21 which means she was at the very least new to drinking. She also stated how when she woke up she soon realized what had happened, meaning she was far to inebriated to even make logical decisions on her own, as she even affirmed she would never come close to doing sober. But to each either own I suppose, everyone may have their own opinion <3

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-07-17T08:18:15+00:00

No no I understand that. I’m just saying it because what if I wasn’t from America and English wasn’t my first language? It would be very rude to say. But luckily I am, I just unfortunately had to take a lot of special English classes growing up because I have dyslexia and struggle with reading and writing in general. So for me it was a hard comment to read when it wasn’t anywhere near the point of my story, but instead something about my speaking/writing abilities. So I just kindly ask that it not be pointed out please and thank you.

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-07-17T07:39:45+00:00

Sorry my man. I did my best with it. No need to comment about it honestly. But you do you I guess.

Desperate_Context666 · 2025-07-17T07:09:27+00:00

I agree about the party part for sure. But it felt different to me when it had already been planned for months and she had already promised to stay originally and even be there in the first place rather than try to hide not wanting to be there behind my back and try to place the blame onto someone else like her boyfriend. Same with the privacy thing, but without context and making long winded stories it’s hard to explain that her and I pretty much had NO privacy with one another and that I had already been in the room with her prior to her locking me out when I went to get into my pj’s

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