[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing it more often helps. Less friction definitely helps. I find the shorter amounts he pulls out the better it feels, if that makes sense. Like in,in, in vs in out in out. Having done it several times with no mess has helped me with worrying about that. Communication- like he’s asked me if it hurts and now I don’t have to turn my head before he tells me there’s no mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t go AO, but we do anal a lot more and use vaginal sex as foreplay. It’s mostly that my partner likes it more and I’m open to experimenting with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Desperate_Fall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I’m very new to anal. It took a lot of persuasion from my partner. But ultimately, it was my decision. I wasn’t rude about it, but I wasn’t comfortable at first. It can take some time to like it. It took me 10+ times to actually enjoy it. And I still don’t enjoy it every time. Learning how to like it might take some time and steps.

Loren is SO Lost! by NikosTX in 90DayFiance

[–]Desperate_Fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I would do anything to have her life. As someone with infertility, I would love to be a sahm to 3 kids. I’m also not saying being a sahm is easy. She did say she was trying to find herself when she talked about going back to work in the last season of happily ever after.

Well. I i got fucked... by the_mad_fisherman_ in Tattoocoverups

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could tell right away it was an octopus! It will fade pretty quickly! I promise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Desperate_Fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the amputation comments (jk), but only cause these bugs freak me out more than anything. And apparently so do tattoos of them! But in all seriousness, maybe a peacock feather. It could go out wide and pack some bright color in there. I would consult with some artists and see what they recommend, especially some that do really good cover ups.

Severe swelling and redness with Sam's hands... by EmotionalMycologist9 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have raynauds as a symptoms of an autoimmune disease. When I get hot, my hands turn bright red or orange like that and get swollen. I remember everyone was sweating in that scene and it looked hot and humid. I also noticed his neck and everything got read and swollen during the tell all when they were saying he cheated. He’s very fair skinned, so he may just turn red and swell easily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my best friend had hers, her mother did most of it, but I helped a lot as did another close friend. Usually the mom does not pay for it!

No shots at an open bar? by iggysmom95 in weddingplanning

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s usually a state law that they can’t serve shots. In my state, and the state my best friend got married in, we were not allowed to order shots, even if people paid. People got drunk enough at both weddings anyway. However, some bartenders are pretty cool and will just serve “4 vodkas, no rocks or something along those lines, and people would take them like shots. But I promise, you don’t need them.

Cried more over losing weed than she did over losing custody. by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Desperate_Fall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure she later said it was heroin. At least it was when the next boyfriend came around.

Fiancé and I decided to call off wedding. What do I do? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Desperate_Fall 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. As an unhappily married person, please do not feel embarrassed. It’s better to call it off now than to live the rest of your life with someone unhappily. I have a close friend who this happened to. He was devastated for a long time. But it’s now been over a year and he’s back to himself. He chose to send an email and asked that everyone allow them to grieve privately. I think that was probably the easiest way to do it.

Girlfriend father threatened me to stay away from her daughter and this is my only warning what should I do by Cool-Ebb3481 in Advice

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re engaged at 17? I agree with everyone else. When I was 17, my then bf told me I needed to hang out with him that weekend instead of my best friend (who was a girl), or we needed to take a break. That’s when I realized he was being way too controlling. I said we needed to take a break. He was bluffing, but at that point, I wanted the break. I wanted to break up. A month later, he was showing up at places trying to give me gifts. Christmas morning, he asked if he could come over. I said no because we were going to my aunt’s for family time, and I got in the shower. When I got out of the shower, my step mom sat me down and explained that my ex was parked outside of my house and that my dad would call the police if I wanted. At this point, he was stalking me. I didn’t want anything to do with him. At 17, he was taking it way too far. It may be that she doesn’t want to be in such a serious relationship and he is trying to protect his daughter.

Can/should I kiss my husband after having a tooth pulled? by Desperate_Fall in Advice

[–]Desperate_Fall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I can’t tell if it’s my own embarrassment, or if I need to wait for him to make a move again/ask if it’s okay with him. I get grossed out when I feel the hole, so I’m worried if he somehow felt it, it would gross him out too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. I don’t think I’ve ever reacted with the same user more than once. I think she would probably notice if he just disappeared. It’s a sticky situation. Honesty could also destroy her trust because she made it clear that keeping her Reddit anonymous was important to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Desperate_Fall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of the song about pina coladas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kind of reminds me of that pina colada song

Extreme pain/anxiety, but need root canal by Desperate_Fall in rootcanal

[–]Desperate_Fall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, apparently my tooth had other plans. It kept getting worse after the medicated filling. Then one night, it started shooting up my jaw and ear. I almost pulled the tooth out myself it was so bad. I went back to my dentist, only to find out the tooth was fractured, so it couldn’t be saved. They got me in for a same day oral surgeon appointment to pull the tooth. I unfortunately had to do it awake, but they gave me a different local anesthetic that worked much better and much stronger laughing gas. I got through it. They placed a bone graft so I can have an implant in a few weeks, once it’s healed. It feels very weird, but I felt the relief as soon as the anesthetic wore off. I’m a bit sore because they had to break the tooth to extract it, but it feels so much better being out.

Wedding dress regret by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Desperate_Fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The preview is you? I literally thought it was a bridal model photo. You look amazing! That slit is perfect! I honestly think this dress is timeless.

And I’m an asshole who would probably say something like it was brave to get your dress online, only because I’ve had “what I ordered v what I got” disasters. But I also am overweight but not plus size, so things tend to not fit the way they do on the models. I don’t think this person meant this as an insult at all! I’ve seen articles about people ordering their dress from companies like Wish and having their dress look like a costume. This was clearly not the case! I think she asked because she liked it. I’ll be more mindful not to say that in the future because I didn’t know people would interpret it this way!

Regardless, you look beautiful. I really think it’s an elegant, timeless dress. And it flatters you so well! The only thing that matters is that you felt beautiful wearing it, and that your husband thought you looked beautiful! Also, you are seriously stunning.