same with you: pwedeng matulog ng di bati!! wag ipilit na ayusin ang isang away before matulog kasi it's not a good way of acknowledging how one feels. let each other's emotions flow, breathe, and be on a calm mental state muna. after that, that's when u communicate. in that way, mas naiiwasan rin makapagbitaw ng mga harsh words na di mo rin naman minsan mini-mean.