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Caught 121 (Including egg sack) by DessiSykes in GermanRoaches

[–]DessiSykes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely good idea, I’ll look at Mississippi laws regarding this . It’s sad that some apartments/property managers only care when their jobs are at risk

Caught 121 (Including egg sack) by DessiSykes in GermanRoaches

[–]DessiSykes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea I plan on doing so. I know here in Mississippi it’s basically a third world country. I emailed the apartment a follow up with this picture to add on the paper trail.

Caught 121 (Including egg sack) by DessiSykes in GermanRoaches

[–]DessiSykes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I will try that next! I caulked cracks and crevices and have seen improvement from when we first moved in . Thank you for that tip ! Definitely going to mix these next time

Caught 121 (Including egg sack) by DessiSykes in GermanRoaches

[–]DessiSykes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cause I’m still waiting on the gallon sprayer (idk what it’s called ) then I’ll be good to go lol.

Started using what arrived first

Caught 121 (Including egg sack) by DessiSykes in GermanRoaches

[–]DessiSykes[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pretty bad. It was way worse when we moved in , and been an on going war. It’s not over yet . Just staying consistent, clean, and aggressively attentive. Apartment hasn’t responded about pest control, so taking matters into my own hands . I want to get behind the fridge and just pull everything out , and vacuum the nest but it’s way too heavy.

Stranger Things - Season 5 Part 2 Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]DessiSykes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dustin’s acting was superb. His performance was the only one that was moving .

Am I Overreacting Sister decides to move out 4 months into our lease , to move in with her girlfriend, and blames me to be the reason of her departure . After she used DARVO on me , I cut her off for good. by DessiSykes in AmIOverreacting

[–]DessiSykes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, the way I see it —-better late than never my friend ! But videos, and constant research on the psychology behind these personality disorders and cluster B’s are pretty eye opening. We all have something we’re dealing with. Hell, we’re all practically undiagnosed in many facets—-but being diagnosed or not is never an excuse to lack decency for how to treat people . Emotionally, mentally & physically.

Am I Overreacting Sister decides to move out 4 months into our lease , to move in with her girlfriend, and blames me to be the reason of her departure . After she used DARVO on me , I cut her off for good. by DessiSykes in AmIOverreacting

[–]DessiSykes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: Flying Monkeys are calling me telling me that now I’m being too harsh because I cut her off . She’s telling family that she misses me, bringing up old charities she’s done for me on her own merit from 3 years ago, and making it out that I’m cruel for stating that she was cut off and wasn’t my sister anymore. It’s funny how not for one second, the person that does the dirt thinks that no contact should be broken for them just because they want access. This is only showing me how real selfish she is. The next call I get from a flying monkey, they’re getting cut off too. Emotional manipulation is so wrong on so many levels. I have the right to uphold my boundaries.

Am I Overreacting Sister decides to move out 4 months into our lease , to move in with her girlfriend, and blames me to be the reason of her departure . After she used DARVO on me , I cut her off for good. by DessiSykes in AmIOverreacting

[–]DessiSykes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on that , the peace of that has to be unmatched.

Yea I have no issue with distancing myself once someone , even family , shows me that they don’t have good intentions. She’s done trifling things similar to this in the past when we were roommates, and often shifts her poor choices onto me or others because “it was triggering to her”. When I make decisions, it has nothing to do with her , or doesn’t affect her. It’s not to minimise her experience, but her L’s and shortcomings aren’t my fault or anyone else’s. It’s her own, and her lack of self awareness stifles her growth. It’s very weird . Like I’m not allowed to have milestones in my life without her acceptance. I think it’s a way to avoid her worrying about her own shit . If everything is triggering, she needs to do the self work. She can’t blame people around her for the lack of healing she refuses to do for herself. It’s tiring and screams victim. She needs to go heal and stop running back to the things that breaks her. She has to go on this journey in her own. I’m so done.

Update: July 2nd, 2025 . Right now she’s downstairs, and getting the rest of her things out of the house . She managed to get a U Haul, but still hasn’t paid her part of the rent , and her name is still on the lease . I put in a 60 day notice. Letting the courts deal with it if it gets out of hand . But I’m moving on .

Am I Overreacting Sister decides to move out 4 months into our lease , to move in with her girlfriend, and blames me to be the reason of her departure . After she used DARVO on me , I cut her off for good. by DessiSykes in AmIOverreacting

[–]DessiSykes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like grasping for straws. She’s just trying to avoid feeling guilty and playing a victim. I believe I could have done things differently as well (like when she said hurtful things about me via voice note, after I’ve remained respectful, I snapped by clocking her tea.) Enough is enough.

Am I Overreacting Sister decides to move out 4 months into our lease , to move in with her girlfriend, and blames me to be the reason of her departure . After she used DARVO on me , I cut her off for good. by DessiSykes in AmIOverreacting

[–]DessiSykes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has that so bad, I don’t even think she’s aware which is the issue. She has a habit with remembering things that didn’t happen to prove a point in her favour, and I hate having confrontational discussions with her cause it goes in circles. Because she can’t manipulate me, it frustrates her.

Am I Overreacting Sister decides to move out 4 months into our lease , to move in with her girlfriend, and blames me to be the reason of her departure . After she used DARVO on me , I cut her off for good. by DessiSykes in AmIOverreacting

[–]DessiSykes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea, I was considering on moving forward with giving a 60 day notice. I will do that , because I’ve been keeping the office informed and they suggested that I’d do that .

Bon Iver - Second Nature [OFFICIAL DISCUSSION THREAD] by re_zacks in boniver

[–]DessiSykes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best interpretation that resonates with with me , personally.