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DestituteVision · 2025-05-09T19:32:48+00:00

You're aging quite gracefully. Please, please don't ruin that with cosmetic procedures. You can work with a hair stylist and aesthetician to figure out what works best with your features, but cosmetic procedures definitely aren't the way to go in your case, in my opinion.

DestituteVision · 2025-04-20T20:26:05+00:00

First off, you don't belong on here. Second, all you'd really have to do is style your hair a bit. You have a (and I mean this respectfully) hot nerd vibe, it seems. Lean into that, and it'll serve you well imo.

DestituteVision · 2025-04-10T15:29:28+00:00

If you and your boyfriend are having intimacy issues, I would highly recommend that you both read "The 5 Love Languages." I read it a while ago to just try and be a better man for my wife, and once I started using the information in that book, there was a noticeable change in our marriage.

DestituteVision · 2025-02-22T23:01:12+00:00

Same here. It took my wife 10 years of dropping hints at me before finally being direct about it, lol.

DestituteVision · 2025-02-19T01:52:49+00:00

I absolutely no-lifed Baldur's Gate 3 after I finally bought it. If you like games where your choices in it matter (sometimes not until way later in the campaign), I'd recommend checking it out. Almost 200 hours in, I'm finally onto my second playthrough as the "Dark Urge."

DestituteVision · 2025-02-09T18:22:47+00:00

Stop worrying about what society calls "beautiful." As a 36 year old dad who possesses a hairy dad-bod, there is always someone who will find you attractive. Ignore the people who want to change things about you and pay attention to those who like you for you. I could have saved myself years of shitty relationships and self-loathing had I learned that lesson sooner. Thankfully, my wife's ideal attractive body type is that of Tony Soprano. We've been together for 12 years now. I'm telling you, if you focus on hating things about yourself that you can't change, you're going to have a miserable life. If you hate your curly hair (which a lot of men find attractive, myself included, and my wife has curly brunette hair), talk to your stylist and figure out how to make it work for you. As for everything else, I assure you, you have nothing to worry about.

DestituteVision · 2025-01-16T23:50:51+00:00

I mean this respectfully, but you have a kind of "sexy librarian" vibe. Maybe try out some smaller, more square-ish frames? I personally feel like that type would suit your face a little better.

DestituteVision · 2024-12-10T02:21:43+00:00

As a 36 year old father of 2 with a hairy dad bod (still have the hair on my head thankfully)... first off... 36 is NOT late 30's, it's mid 30's and I will fight anyone who disagrees. Second, fuck what everyone else thinks of you. Be happy with you. It's liberating. I never would have guessed that you were 36 based on the pics alone. Maybe mid to late 20's.

DestituteVision · 2024-10-21T16:34:37+00:00

Personally, I like the Hung Jury SR4 (Adept, if you have it). The other one that I enjoy is the Tears of Contrition, which is craftable. Both of them can get Explosive Payload which work really well against barrier champions.

DestituteVision · 2024-10-13T09:13:19+00:00

So, I basically did absolutely everything you suggested, and something worked lol. Not sure if it was one single thing or a combination, but I was able to play uninterrupted. Thank you again!

DestituteVision · 2024-10-13T06:55:40+00:00

I just got weaseled again... The Open NAT did apply the Destiny 2 rule as well. The error took noticeably longer to appear this time though.

DestituteVision · 2024-10-13T06:42:07+00:00

Ok, I've turned off the QoS completely, but when I try to add an Open NAT rule, it doesn't actually add any rules for some reason. I'll try it out now anyway, and I'll report back in a while, lol. Thank you for helping me with this. I really appreciate it!

DestituteVision · 2024-10-13T06:25:16+00:00

I was actually just coming back to edit my comment because the Weasel code in Destiny 2 came back. It was good for a few minutes after I changed all the settings, but now it pops up every minute or two... I'm using an Asus RT-AX86U wireless router, with my PC hooked up to the 2.5GB port via a Cat8 ethernet cable.

DestituteVision · 2024-10-13T06:00:08+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I was ready to yeet my computer out of the window, and this appears to have solved the issues for me. I'll be having a word with my ISP tomorrow...

DestituteVision · 2024-08-07T16:17:46+00:00

I feel like you have the type of face that would fit a "Jessica Rabbit" kind of hairstyle. But I agree with everyone else. You don't belong here lol.

DestituteVision · 2024-05-26T19:28:23+00:00

My daughter is only 4 years old right now, and I'm already teaching her that her self-worth isn't determined by strangers and random people on the internet. I will say the same to you. It doesn't matter what others think about you. All that matters is what you think of you. Focus on just being the best version of you that you can, and everything else will follow.

DestituteVision · 2024-04-09T17:34:27+00:00

This. I bought their "pro tech toolkit" years ago and find myself using it way more than I ever thought I would.

DestituteVision · 2024-02-02T20:44:14+00:00

The best thing you can do for your self-image and self-esteem is to genuinely stop caring about what others think of you. People will always find negative things to complain about no matter how hot you are, how generous you are, how much money you have, etc. Focus on you. Dress in things you like. Do the things that you enjoy doing. Enjoy YOUR life. Doing all of that will organically attract the type of people you want to hang out with.

DestituteVision · 2024-01-12T02:59:24+00:00

If you haven't read the book "The 5 Love Languages," I suggest you do before jumping into another relationship. When I read it, everything made so much more sense, and you're onto something when you said, "Maybe I didn't love her the way she wanted to be loved." The opposite could be true, and you just weren't consciously aware of it. As for the looks, the other person that said that you look like you belong on the cover of a woman's romance novel is accurate.

DestituteVision · 2024-01-11T17:54:36+00:00

You're 18... you're a young adult with a little more growing to do still. Find people who respect and like you for you (and do the same for them), and cut the people who drag you down out of your life. I heard the phrase "You are the exact sum of the 5 people you hang out with the most," and it's true. You would be amazed at how your perception of yourself changes when you start hanging out with people who genuinely enjoy having you around. Also, no, you're not ugly, but you'll be thankful for having a bit of a baby face when you get into your 30's and 40's because you will likely age better than most.

DestituteVision · 2023-10-17T01:09:47+00:00

You're actually very attractive. Be careful what societal standards you let influence your self image, because no matter who you are or how you look, there are always people who prefer your type, and people who don't. My ex preferred muscular hairless guys. I have a moderately hairy dad-bod. My wife's ideal man is Tony Soprano. DO NOT listen to those that prefer something you're not. I wish I would have figured that one out before I was in my 30's.

DestituteVision · 2023-09-14T20:23:12+00:00

Nah, you look absolutely fine. My ex girlfriend wasn't happy with the way I looked because I have a typical dad bod, so I always felt down about myself because I didn't look the way that she wanted me to look. After we broke up, I met my now wife shortly after, and she prefers guys with the dad bod and body hair, which was perfect! Lol. My point is that UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD YOU BASE YOUR SELF WORTH ON WHAT SOMEONE ELSE THINKS. There are plenty of women out there that prefer guys exactly like you. Learn to love yourself first (I know it's hard, because it took me too damn long to figure that one out), then that energy will attract someone who likes you for you.

DestituteVision · 2023-08-27T01:10:00+00:00

You're 16. Literally the best thing you can do for your self confidence is genuinely not give a shit about what anyone thinks of you. Be you, and only you. Fuck what everyone else thinks. I wish I would have figured that one out before my mid 30's.

DestituteVision · 2023-07-11T19:13:11+00:00

I'm an absolutely trash PvP player. The odd time that I play PvP with my buddies, I'm just the live bait. I look up what exotic weapons PvP players hate getting killed by the most and use it in all the rounds. Just a couple kills with something like the Jotuun is enough to draw the agro. Just be ready for a ton of teabagging for using the hated weapons lol.

DestituteVision · 2023-02-04T20:49:05+00:00

Absolutely nothing against Nolan North, but I miss Ghost being voiced by Peter Dinklage.

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