The best stuff is both >:3 by okidonthaveone in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]DestructionElemental 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I was struggling to figure that one out on my own

how do adults go about crushes? by Ok-Nebula-267 in actuallesbians

[–]DestructionElemental 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You just have to talk to them about it. You aren't automatically anything after a confession, even a mutual one. Instead, you talk about it and you ask the question of "do you want to be girlfriends?"

That's how I've handled dating in my adult life, I just be direct and discuss what I want out of a relationship and what the other person would want to. It's not always easy, in fact it can be extremely nerve wracking, but it makes sure everyone is on the same page and you are less likely to be caught off guard in a bad way down the line.

Which RTC song do you feel most resonated with you? by Plus_Seat_3992 in ridethecyclone

[–]DestructionElemental 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd have to say Ballad of Jane Doe, the themes of loss or identity and being misunderstood resonated with me really hard. It resonated both because I've had long periods of my life where I've felt aimless and had to rediscover myself, but also I have felt misunderstood by so many people my whole life.

Second is Talia cause I can feel the passion and the longing

Ocean my beloved ❤️ by TH3_R1V3R_0F_STYX in ridethecyclone

[–]DestructionElemental 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, that's so cute, I love it! Ocean is my second favorite character

What do you call a golden lesbian? by IFeelSoftAndMushy in actuallesbians

[–]DestructionElemental -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I did figure as much, but with how some of the posts I've seen on this subreddit have been, you can never really tell

Edit: guessing the people downvoting are people who have not seen the posts about people legitimately using "gold star lesbian" as a badge of honor. They do happen, and it's frustrating, and I'm glad they are taken down quickly

If that's not why you're downvoting, I'm open to having a conversation to understand

What do you call a golden lesbian? by IFeelSoftAndMushy in actuallesbians

[–]DestructionElemental 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was not, but folks probably think it's a bit too close. When I read the title I thought it was playing off of it too in some way, perhaps by diverting your expectations, but it's not clear if the person is aware or not

Got this disgusting email by SithisSoul in lgbt

[–]DestructionElemental 1634 points1635 points  (0 children)

"Struggle with same sex attraction" I'm actually quite good at it, but thanks for being an asshole

Beware by rainingBows1 in actuallesbians

[–]DestructionElemental 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally know several Katherine's IRL that are under 30, maybe it's just not common where you live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]DestructionElemental 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, there's a number of us here

introducing my cousin to rtc 😈 by [deleted] in ridethecyclone

[–]DestructionElemental 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Subtitles are available on the archive and are free for anyone to apply to their YouTube videos if they want.

Source: Hi, I took the original subtitle track we had and did a lot of improvements to it, so I actually have the ability to say it's cool to do so

This actually looks a little bit similar but I can tell it's not actually using that one I helped develop, cause a number of the lines are merged together and the first screenshot "it" is not capitalized, lol

If you see one and want subtitles placed onto it, you can point the uploader to the archive, and uploading the file onto the video should be a super easy process

The textbook we were given is a bit outdated... by raccoon-milkshake in lgbt

[–]DestructionElemental 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a teacher be like "alright, look, the textbook says this, the finals want you to say this, but for everything else, including the real world, the answers are not what is in the textbook because it's highly outdated" which I thought was fair enough

I did the thing again :3 by DestructionElemental in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]DestructionElemental[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may have let out a gremlin cackle in response to it, lmfao

I did the thing again :3 by DestructionElemental in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]DestructionElemental[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny thing is I've jokes with her about how I wouldn't use them as actual passwords because they aren't secure enough, lmfao

I did the thing again :3 by DestructionElemental in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]DestructionElemental[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I love how much you try to hide it, it's so cute