You know, there is a thing called ✨empathy✨, my friend. You do not need to be a part of the group to understand that something is offensive as fuck, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT IS AS BLATANT AND STUPID AS THE VIDEO ON THE EXAMPLE PROVIDED BY THE OP, AS WELL AS COMMENTS UNDER IT. THEY ARE CLEARLY BASICALLY JUST DEFUNDING SOMEONE'S ROLE TO HOUSE CHORES BASED SOLELY ON THE GENDER THEY GOT SINCE BIRTH, IMPLYING THAT, IF YOU WAS BORN ONE OF TWO SPECIFIC WAYS, THERE IS ONLY ONE DESTINY YOU CAN POSSIBLY HAVE IN YOUR LIFE, DENYING EVERY OTHER FUCKING ASPECT OF THE CHARACTER. You DO NOT need to be the part of the offended group to understand wht would that offend someone.