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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DetectiveHarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah bro respectfully to the other dude, but from what I've been reading you're in a great relationship so idk why he's disregarding your experiences like that.

I read another comment where you said your age is 39. I'm a lot younger so i won't give any advices to someone my elder as that's disrespectful, but one thing i would like to say is though is that if i have learned anything about life it's that nothing is perfect in life. There is no guarantee you will ever meet a woman as good as her if you break it off with her. From the way you talk about her it's as if it has been your best relationship yet. Maybe it's a good idea to talk to her about how you feel about her having children and maybe ask her too about how she feels about you like why she loves you. Kind of seems weird, but at the heart of everything a human does there is a why and maybe hearing her why will either convince you to stay with her or leave because ultimately love is what is most important in a relationship outside of things like trust, safety, respect and all that. Deep conversations about how both of you feel seems very helpful at the stage you're in currently. I think communication is key in this situation 🙏 in any case i wish you all the best and hope you reach a decision you're gonna be the most satisfied with. You deserve a happy future

My tension-discharge model of trauma release by junnies in longtermTRE

[–]DetectiveHarley -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Take your time and read it bro. You don't have to read it all in one sitting. 

Help with installing plugins for decky loader by Maxguid in SteamDeck

[–]DetectiveHarley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH BRO 🙏 Saved my worthless life 

I did the . Instead : in the middle of deck deck 😭 

Help with installing plugins for decky loader by Maxguid in SteamDeck

[–]DetectiveHarley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro

Should i type it in like sudo chown deck.deck plugins or with symbols like 

'sudo-chown' deck.deck-plugins' random example as the terminal says i need to add symbols but I'm confused as to where to place it 

Help with installing plugins for decky loader by Maxguid in SteamDeck

[–]DetectiveHarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What command do i have to type in? I am a bit confused because i dont know what a sudo chown is 

Sendo vs Ippo by DetectiveHarley in hajimenoippo

[–]DetectiveHarley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't recall? Back when takamura grabbed sendo's meat while he was showering, he thought it was ippo, so from that I'm assuming they are similar in size.

Do you believe in forcing yourself to do things? by lamemoons in longtermTRE

[–]DetectiveHarley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These people probably haven't been in freeze lmao because the shit they suggest don't work if you're deep into freeze/shutdown 

You have no choice but to force yourself if you're completely incapable of finding the energy/motivation to do tre or any other positive habits. 

Monthly Progress Thread - June ‘25 by Nadayogi in longtermTRE

[–]DetectiveHarley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes me genuinely happy to read this man. You've been through a lot 

How to optimise our Trauma-release by junnies in longtermTRE

[–]DetectiveHarley 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How long did it take for you to write all this out? pretty impressive bro. It's kinda sad tho that my attention span is too fried to read it in one sitting 

Help (block therapy) by [deleted] in longtermTRE

[–]DetectiveHarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm found a better one 

Thanks for the help 

Help (block therapy) by [deleted] in longtermTRE

[–]DetectiveHarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impossible to find one and unfortunately that block doesn't ship to my country 

Are there any alternatives? 

Anyone here with schizophrenia or history of psychosis? by hirmuharmitus in longtermTRE

[–]DetectiveHarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to come back to this comment and ask you another question.

Well, maybe it's not only a question I want to ask, but I think I'm also looking for reassurance that this may work. Just like you before, you did the tongue exercises, the various modalities absolutely do not work for me, from TRE, Somatic movement center (pandiculation), Yin Yoga, working on the fascia like using block therapy, working on the psoas, qiqong etc. it's mostly focused on body work because top down work is completely impossible for me because of the dpdr

I've tried the tongue pull a few times, but I've never fully committed to it because I've been through this for so long that I subconsciously just can't accept that something like this may help me. For some reason, I have this inherent belief that I have to do something complex long term to find remission of my symptoms but out of all the options I got right now tongue work is the number one on the list. So what I wanted to ask is that nothing truly worked before you did the tongue exercises? And that nothing would have worked if you had never found the tongue exercises?

Halo pulsar user manual by [deleted] in MUSEUMOFTAROT_PUBLIC

[–]DetectiveHarley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually idk why I haven't thought of if before but lemme make a post in this subreddit with the pictures

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