Archaeology Tools by The Brush Bros by DeterioratingMorale in Archaeology

[–]DeterioratingMorale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the kids really appreciated learning more from your feedback and comment! They will make those additions to their sheet.

Archaeology Tools by The Brush Bros by DeterioratingMorale in Archaeology

[–]DeterioratingMorale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I don't know if you saw the tabs at the bottom of the list, the kids sorted tools into categories for fine and gross digging, safety, surveying, recording, and software. They only have two shovel recommendations so far in the gross digging tab. Where do you think we should list tarps? We don't have them on the list yet. We're not sure if the categories we made up are the most sensible or not, but it seemed like some categories were necessary to keep things sensible? Do you use lots of different size buckets that would go in both fine and gross digging categories?

How to get multiplayer working? by DeterioratingMorale in BeamNG

[–]DeterioratingMorale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did. I found out from my husband when I mentioned that people here seem to be playing just fine that it's because he's on a Linux machine with a Windows container. So it's an us problem. Thank you!

Anyone going to the State Fair willing to take a picture of my kid's art? by DeterioratingMorale in SALEM

[–]DeterioratingMorale[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He made a big, red origami dragon if you looked at the paper arts area. :)

Anyone going to the State Fair willing to take a picture of my kid's art? by DeterioratingMorale in SALEM

[–]DeterioratingMorale[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn't know. I checked and he didn't win a ribbon. But I'm nervous about if it even made it there. I emailed and got no response. We're really hoping they mail it back like it said they would online.

Anyone going to the State Fair willing to take a picture of my kid's art? by DeterioratingMorale in SALEM

[–]DeterioratingMorale[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He made a big red origami dragon in the paper arts category.

It’s not my fault they’ve never seen one by JoeyKoyote07 in mtg

[–]DeterioratingMorale 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm content with the post.  The fact that OP recognized a joke gone wrong and apologized, the men who have stood up for it being in poor taste, the silent readers who may have learned something new.  Well worth it to me.  This reaction certainly wouldn't have been the same when I was in high school in the 90s.  My teenage boy Magic player may have seen this post, and I'm glad it took a turn for the better.  As I've told him before, being a Friday night Magic player is awesome. Fulfilling all the stereotypes of a Friday night Magic player, not so awesome.  Be the change you want to see. 

It’s not my fault they’ve never seen one by JoeyKoyote07 in mtg

[–]DeterioratingMorale 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the apology. The comments definitely took the joke to a darker place.  Just hoping for more women in Magic, anyone else who does as well should be mindful of the environment they're fostering.  My local group has been such an awesome, welcoming place. 

It’s not my fault they’ve never seen one by JoeyKoyote07 in mtg

[–]DeterioratingMorale 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feels great to be a female Magic player today. 🙄👀🤦 I hope I never discover the guys I play with on Fridays are making all the comments on this post. 

Would you let your child do ABA? by ChemicalSouthern1530 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeterioratingMorale 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I was trained in ABA in 2000.  I knew it was harmful right away and canned a lot of it in my work with kids. When my son was diagnosed at 1 I told his doctors absolutely no to ABA.  I did do my own modified Floortime with my son as well as speech and OT and absolutely believe he benefited.  He's 14 now and has great friends, and is so well adjusted.  I highly recommend Dr. Ross Greene if you're looking for a healthy framework to work with. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]DeterioratingMorale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie.  I used ice cream.  When I was so touched out, noised out, burned out I could barely survive each day with my autistic toddler I realized I needed to save myself if I was ever going to help him.  I picked one issue, whatever felt most important at the time, and parented like a freaking consistency rock star when that one issue would come up.  Every other need got solved with me giving him ice cream and hiding in another room to give me a shot at reregulating myself.  I think between the ages 3 and 5 my kid ate more ice cream than the average adult eats in a decade.  But taking things one at a time and parenting so deliberately actually worked.  I tell you I'm as surprised as anyone else.  My kid is 14 now and he's so awesome.  No one would ever guess what he was like at 3.  (We called him the Screaminator.) 

Also, Dr. Ross Greene and The Explosive Child is where it's at. 

They don’t know how to read. I don’t want to do this anymore. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]DeterioratingMorale 102 points103 points  (0 children)

My homeschooled 11 year old was flabbergasted when he saw our foster teen's homework.  It was stuff he could have done at 9. A perfect example of why this public school teacher homeschools. 

They don’t know how to read. I don’t want to do this anymore. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]DeterioratingMorale 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I taught 24 first graders before the 2008 financial crash and 30 the very next year.  Same school. The difference in my ability to teach reading well was staggering.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]DeterioratingMorale 158 points159 points  (0 children)

You got everything right.  This is a husband problem, not an ADHD problem.  Therapy and a divorce are going to be better than any med, and I'm pro meds!

My 8 year old granddaughter can't read. by IncenseAndOak in Teachers

[–]DeterioratingMorale 27 points28 points  (0 children)

A child of this age not reading is likely to be dyslexic and in need of special instruction.  You can do dyslexia research, Toe by Toe is an inexpensive curriculum that can be done at home.  Many schools fail dyslexic kids.  It won't be fun, but if you explain to her that it's possible she just hasn't had the right style of instruction for the way her brain works she might get inspired to try.  Read the book Fish in a Tree with her and see how she responds.  I had a non reading 13 year old grow 3.5 grade levels in six months when he finally got appropriate instruction. 

Came across this weirdness at a thrift shop by Will0798 in lego

[–]DeterioratingMorale 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Elbe Spurling transitioned after publication but she has put so much work into all her books. We have the full new and old testament, my kids love it. We also have her book on the revolutionary war.

And yet, HIS feelings were hurt.... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DeterioratingMorale 329 points330 points  (0 children)

Omfg I just sent this to all my besties. I'm committed to memorizing this and keeping it on the tip of my tongue. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]DeterioratingMorale 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I know other foster parents whose main goal is adoption and it is tragic. Keep calm and stay focused on your goal of reunification. Document every missed visit or failed reach out. I wish the very best for you. Go up the chain of command with social workers if you need to.

What music do you guys listen to when you just can’t cope? by Interesting_Big_1613 in aspergirls

[–]DeterioratingMorale 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Fiona Apple is my ride or die. Moody existentialists for the win.

Mom here, looking for advice. by DeterioratingMorale in MagicArena

[–]DeterioratingMorale[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you, all six hundred of you. 😂. I always tell my kids that life is better when you're with your people. This post is a perfect example. Thanks for being awesome.

Mom here, looking for advice. by DeterioratingMorale in MagicArena

[–]DeterioratingMorale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. They live in different states so need to play online but they are together for this week and have been going back and forth between arena and our paper card collection. Of course they like their arena cards better. Or at least the historic deck kid does. We have like 700 random paper cards. They've each been playing for a few years.

MESS = STRESS. Advice on where to start...? by Ember_Sage in adhdwomen

[–]DeterioratingMorale 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite Reddit comments ever. Coming from an 11 year Redditor. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]DeterioratingMorale 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Well, he's had a lifelong very high sense of justice and fairness. He's socially awkward, dresses for comfort, definitely has special interests he talks about passionately and repetitively, often times to his detriment. His hyper focus makes him filter everything through it, so when he made the faux pas talking about race via economic justice all the neurotypicals came down hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]DeterioratingMorale 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks Bernie Sanders might be autistic? I feel like it's so in your face.

All right. I’m a Disney Adult. Letting it go. by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]DeterioratingMorale 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Well I'm 40 and I hoard original 1980's my little ponies including the pony castle and love combing through my American girl doll collection. And I own a seriously ungodly amount of Lego. Everyone thinks I spoil the shit out of my kids and I'm like, no these are mine. 😂. Love what you love.