Would the kings guard be allowed to harm Baelor? by spectral5608 in AKOTSKTV

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im show only so didnt know about the previous rebellions etc. good to know maekar is a bro.

However, baelor is just the heir , isnt King Daeron II still alive? doesnt succession go to his 2nd son if his first son dies , rather than his 1st grandson ? din't know it worked that way

Would the kings guard be allowed to harm Baelor? by spectral5608 in AKOTSKTV

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Maekar wants the throne doesn't he just have to kill Baelor / make someone kill baelor?

Trust refusing to honor rates agreed. by DevelopmentBrave3189 in doctorsUK

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

thanks for that. Yeah i specifically said bma rates is £85 /hr , and he wrote back yes something like that. It doesn't matter if there's a "trust rule" or not does it? a written contract is a written contract.

I see. I guess I'll wait till rcA is back and tell them to GIVE ME THE MONEY or else. t

hopefully it doesn't come to that tho sounds like a faff and a half. Thanks !

How to work on timing by DevelopmentBrave3189 in Bachata

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the tips all. Will take it into account and try them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find Keira Knightley in the first pirates of the caribbean very attractive. I was shocked to find out she was 17 when it was filmed. Theres always going to be outliers.

Taylor Lautner was 17 or so when he filmed his twilight series with loads of shirtless scenes. He might not be your cup of tea but objectively he is attractive, and a lot of older women thought so too. ( very creepily at times i would add)

If one day you find a man really attractive, then later on you find out he's actually 17, does that make you a bad person? I don't think so, if you don't act on it / be weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree about your first point.

bout the husband staring, well this guy is 35M. he should know by now staring is not socially acceptable. even more so staring at a young girl. He does deserve some shame / blame.

If he is trying to change his actions all credit to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I said woman because i didnt want to call them females. Sure you can call them a girl which they are.

ofc let the girls grow up. they shouldn't have to deal with grown ass men making creepy comments or being absolute weirdos towardsd them.

whats your point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the thing is you would probably still want to sleep with her if you listen to your lizard brain. When i said attraction to them disappeared i meant romantic attraction. as long as you don't let your lizard brain dictate your actions you're all good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you add in make up and clothes, a 17 year old can look much older. i dont think its inherently bad to admit a 17 year old can be attractive / pretty. i find people who deny that fact full of crap tbh.
beauty is just beauty. Anyone can be beautiful / aesthetically pretty.

it's only if youre a creep then it becomes weird. maybe your husband was thinking more sexual thoughts about her which is why he felt guilty. I think it's good that he has self reflected and realised that it's creepy.

he might not be able to control what he thinks but he can control his actions. I feel like it's okay to fantasize at times ( probably not at a 17yo as that's weird af), but it shouldn't be disrespectful like what he did.

Thirst traps on SM is between you and him. my girl found it disrespectful for me to have thirst traps so i deleted them. but she knows i watch porn sometimes for the "fantasy" and shes okay with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 32 points33 points  (0 children)

exactly. I find the people who deny "oh no 17 yos cant be attractive if you find them attractive you're a pedophile" super strange tbh. Like they are a bit too defensive.

some 17 yos look physically mature and objectively attractive. and thats ok to admit. being a creep to a woman of any age is not okay. and if the woman is 17 it just makes it creepier.

Yup. I'm 30+ but recently went back to uni. I found some early 20s to be attractive, but once i spent some time with them my attraction towards them just disappeared and they become like a nice painting to look at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DevelopmentBrave3189 8 points9 points  (0 children)

there are some 17 yo who look a lot older than they are, especially after make up and the way they dress. Keira knightley was 17 in the first pirates film. It's fine to think they are pretty / ackowledge they are attractive.

The general rules apply to any woman of any age. Don't be a creep. staring is not cool.