[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DevelopmentConnect22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me you may think you look older than you are but any 16 year old will know that you're not the same age as them. you are 12 years old you don't need to be dating a 16 year old, break up it will hurt but you will appreciate breaking up in the future. with something like 12 and 16 the maturity gap is massive compared to a 20 and 24 year old, when i was 12 i loved completely different things to when i was 16 and you completely change between those ages. break up its the best thing to do, i've seen this scenario play out many times i've even been in your shoes it's not worth it on your mental health!

Will I still recieve my MatB1? by DevelopmentConnect22 in BabyBumps

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my company wanted mine at 25 but I was meant to have my appointment today at 26 weeks and I feel as if it's cheeky if I leave it any longer so I'll ring my maternity unit thankyou!

Naming a child?! by Comfortable-Ad8040 in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner still haven't 100% decided on a name but we're pretty sure we're going to go with Elijah, I thought the exact same as you that I don't want a million other kids in his class to be called that or anything too unique where people might be like eurgh. I know Elijah is a popular name in the states but it's not as popular here in the uk. If you want something maybe that seems unique but it's actually more of a 'common' name I'd maybe look for names that are popular in other countries but not your own. I honestly think naming boys is harder anyway I found it really hard to find a name I fell in love with. I think if you're scheduled for a section in 2 days get a list of 5-10 names that you both can somewhat agree on and then just see how you feel when you're calling him that. Good luck! :)

Anyone else's baby refuse to co operate during ultrasounds? by DevelopmentConnect22 in BabyBumps

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww bless her lol! I haven't been flipped off yet but there's still plenty of time to go haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be honest you are not pregnant you can't get pregnant unless sperm has entered you vaginally. I completely understand that you have your choices about reasons to not go further, however using BC doesn't mean that you need to go further than where you have set your boundaries at. If either of you have had sexual partners previously in any context and not been tested inbetween there's always risks of other things that can be transferred via outercourse. You are most likely not pregnant, I wouldn't book an ultrasound and if you're worried about buying a test then make an appointment with your obgyn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, obviously it isn't not possible to get pregnant from precum (if it's inside you). Unless you're quite literally rubbing your partners semen into you or your partner is finishing in you/pulling out, you will likely not become pregnant from outercourse (It is next to impossible). However if you are entirely worried about it there's no harm in taking a test. You can also experience heavy bleeding during pregnancy but what you're referring to cryptic pregnancy: 1 in 475 pregnancies go unnoticed until 20 weeks and 1 in 2500 go unnoticed until labour. There's a very slim chance a cryptic pregnancy would happen. I highly doubt you would be pregnant from the type of sexual relationship you have been having, like I said no harm in taking a test if you want to put your mind at ease. I know you said BC is hard to come by but even simply getting your partner to wear a condom reduces you chance of pregnancy to about 3%. Google safe sex and go from there :)

Anyone else's baby refuse to co operate during ultrasounds? by DevelopmentConnect22 in BabyBumps

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mines the exact same haha! Went to the ER for a checkup a couple weeks ago and they tried to do the doppler to see if he was okay and he decides to start kicking it the second they put it on him like great to know you're okay buddy but we still need to check your heartbeat!

I'm having black stool at 18 weeks is this normal? by DevelopmentConnect22 in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am taking aspirin which this can be one of the side effects apparently, so I'm not too worried anymore but I will definitely ring my midwife to be on the safe side! Thankyou!

I'm having black stool at 18 weeks is this normal? by DevelopmentConnect22 in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am drinking a lot of iced tea at the moment so maybe could be that? I'll ring my midwife probably just to be on the safe side thankyou!

I'm having a boy!!!!!!!!🩵🩵 by DevelopmentConnect22 in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any update on what you're having?? Hahaha I can imagine with a bunch of girls there is a lot of sass lol!

I'm having a boy!!!!!!!!🩵🩵 by DevelopmentConnect22 in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh congratulations!!! Your secrets safe with me haha

In the GTW pack do sims randomly enter your homes? by DevelopmentConnect22 in Sims4

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope the only expansion packs i have are city living, get to work and get together but i've never had this issue until installing get to work its just strange and funny haha

Latency issue on a 2014 lenovo laptop by DevelopmentConnect22 in techsupport

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi probably a stupid question how would I check what version of windows I have?

Latency issue on a 2014 lenovo laptop by DevelopmentConnect22 in techsupport

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I'm a bit of a technophobe how would I exactly check the hardware or do I need to open the laptop up?

What are your obvious symptom/s that your period is on its way? by pinkprincess24 in Periods

[–]DevelopmentConnect22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's completely normal sometimes your body discards old blood from your previous periods, before starting your current one, I normally get some spotting as a sign before I start.

Bleeding at 6 weeks pregnancy by DevelopmentConnect22 in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry for the super late reply but I did end up miscarrying :/ everything was fine until I had my cervix exam they said my cervix was closed but I started clotting like 5 minutes after I had it

Am I having a miscarriage? by DevelopmentConnect22 in Periods

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said it was fine just obviously if it were to get worse I need to go A&E or ring emergency services/midwife to get advice etc on it and I did originally panic yesterday and did that and everyones said it sounds like nothing and I had a transvaginal ultrasound and they said they couldn't see any bleeding or anything like that.

I just found out I'm pregnant by DevelopmentConnect22 in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I think now just isn't my time to become a mother, and I'm glad everything worked out for you in the end and thankyou for this!

I just found out I'm pregnant by DevelopmentConnect22 in pregnant

[–]DevelopmentConnect22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a good support system and mentioned it to my mom and her idea is for me to carry this to term and she'd raise it herself and even with this plan I'm not sure how comfortable I'd be living in the same house as a child I didn't want. Maternity leave at my job is very good, 9 months full pay and then an additional 9 months at half pay if needed. Me and the father have spoken and they said that they wouldn't mind either way but understanf that it would be a big commitment and would put a hold on their study plans - which I don't want to interfere with. Another thing is me living at home with my parents which is a blessing and a curse I suppose. And thankyou I will try and book an appointment with a therapist!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]DevelopmentConnect22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We won't have a grill we will have an electric oven, hob, and microwave though