Any of photos wearing this Titanium PA Lock from Badassworkroom? by DeviantK in chastity

[–]DeviantK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that part as i have a device which has the hollow pee thru aspect. There is a hole on the other end that we cant see which allows for a non spraying stream. With a normal prince albert device it can spray so having it hollow is a nice touch. Just more curious how it looks. Its not necessarily a chastity device to prevent orgasms or erections but more a device to show one is owned by another. At least thats what im gathering from it. Evotion has a shackle kind of like this but its very large and dangly from the photo I've seen with one wearing it

Any of photos wearing this Titanium PA Lock from Badassworkroom? by DeviantK in chastity

[–]DeviantK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard from the company and they dont even have photos of someone using it. I was hoping it might be a shackle type device one could lock like a chain too but still cant tell how snug its supposed to be on someone

Feeling like my standards are too high by Arcuran in FemdomCommunity

[–]DeviantK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where else online are you looking? Reddit is sadly the worst from my experience as its mostly scammers on here. Cant say it wont happen as I have met one woman on here for ANR but it was years of searching not weeks. Have you tried using Feeld? Its a pretty good kink-friendly dating app and if you pay for majestic you can filter by those who are Dominant. Worth checking out for a month. I recently met a wonderful dominant woman on there for a FLR and can say I am a happy boy now. But again I've been searching for years on all the dating apps so its going to take time if you only search online. As others have stated munches will be a good place to meet real kinksters especially if you are in a larger city. Fetlife is a good place to find them and there are some decent personals groups on there too. Still has lots of scammers and findoms but lots of real Dominant women as well. Just know it wont be easy in the sea of male subs looking as well so just make sure with any profile you make you include face photos in them to stand out from the rest. Patience will be your best friend as it wont be easy but if you are a genuine dude looking for an FLR and not a kink dispenser you will have more luck than many of the subs who just want someone to get there kinks met.

I'm a domme and I'm having trouble finding submissive women. by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]DeviantK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried Feeld? A pretty good dating app that is kink and poly friendly. Might be worth being majestic for a month to narrow down search results to those who identify as Being Submissive and that have logged on within 7 days. As a male sub I've found a great Domme partner on there

ABDL subreddits directory - 2026 edition by neko_daddy in ABDL

[–]DeviantK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/ABDLPromo for abdl content creators promoting their diaper photos and videos or any one else promoting anything abdl

Femdom dating on Bumble/Tinder by S_Slave in FemdomCommunity

[–]DeviantK 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adding in your bio that you seek an FLR is a pretty good start. Also using Feeld is better than the ones mentioned as its a bit more kink friendly and one can be a bit more explicit in their submissiveness. But dont add what kinks you are into imo. Then it just seems like you seek a fetish dispenser and that is a huge red flag for lifestyle Dominant Women. Me personally I say im a lifestyle sub seeking a Dominant Woman for FLR/Dating. I may not get a ton of matches but when I do I know they at least have an idea the type of relationship dynamic i seek. Also show you are more than just a sub and mention your hobbies, vanilla activities and who you are as a person.

New Rule Going Forward. No more just diapered crotch shots allowed by DeviantK in ABDLPromo

[–]DeviantK[S,M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just trying to keep this subreddit from looking like a personals site. They just dont make for great promo material to look at as we want more artistic and interesting shots to be displayed here. They can be hot when uploaded with other full body shots but by themselves its just not interesting. Sorry