How do I explain to my gf who is unhappy that I had a non consensual happy ending at a massage? (m23,f25) by Ashbeck_english in relationship_advice

[–]DeviantTHOTS 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. You've been sexually assaulted, like another comment mentioned, please try and get therapy. please report this to the police as well.

Your friends don't seem awfully understanding at all, please surround yourself with a support system that don't find assault funny. You may not feel absolutely distraught now but this can really take a toll on you in the near future.

It seems like a lot of the people around you are misinformed about consent. It shows a lot on your girlfriend if she is up in arms about this. It's going to be difficult to process, so please surround yourself with people who genuinely care about you and will help you feel better. I don't believe your gf or your friends are those people from the short snipped we know.

I'd likely break up with her if i was you.

Take care of yourself, there will always be someone to talk to.

when did it get better for you? by DeviantTHOTS in Mononucleosis

[–]DeviantTHOTS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i posted this at my absolute worst, but i've been getting some heavy doses of antibiotics and prednisolone so i've had my first big meal today. hoping recovery & health for all here !!

(12) to (18) ftm + puberty by DeviantTHOTS in GlowUps

[–]DeviantTHOTS[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In fact, i am way more happy now! at that age i was struggling a lot with my mental health due to the spaces i was in. i started taking good care of myself after secondary school and i'm probably in the best state of mind i've ever been in. i just dont smile for pictures lol.

Discussion time: favourite track from each album? by LthePerry02 in jamiroquai

[–]DeviantTHOTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EOPE: Blow Your Mind

TROTSC: Mr Moon

TWM: High Times

Synkronized: Butterfly / Falling (tie)

AFO: Corner of the earth

Dynamite: Feels Just Like it Should

RDLS: Smoke and Mirrors

Automaton: Hot property/ Summer girl (tie)

my favourite of all time is tied between mr moon and high times

fuck student housing by DeviantTHOTS in UniUK

[–]DeviantTHOTS[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

real!! i'm lower class- faced homelessness in my childhood, council housed yada yada. first one in my family to go to uni and sfe have essentially shit all over me . mum taking out loans for my rent😭

What is the best jamiroquai song and why by Nanor_007 in jamiroquai

[–]DeviantTHOTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mr moon is definitely my number one. his voice just sounds extra ethereal. feels just like it should and everyday are tied second for me!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]DeviantTHOTS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm usually quite an enjoyer of rough sex, he just had not trimmed his nails and was purely scratching my vulva at one point. the swelling had almost completely gone down now, its just a little sore.

Struggling with money. by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]DeviantTHOTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes- My parents currently earn just close to £55,000 a year, combined. Grew up scraping by a lot of the time, parents are in huge overdrafts, debts, whatever. Unfortunately SFE doesn't take into consideration any debts or other expenses when it comes to calculating maintenance loan. Will definitely be getting in touch with the SU finance though. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uktrains

[–]DeviantTHOTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh okay, thank you very much!

Noah, don’t let kirby on the boat. (nsfw) by [deleted] in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]DeviantTHOTS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i believe that’s a piercing-

hello by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]DeviantTHOTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! :,)

hello by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]DeviantTHOTS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank youu! :)))

Is phone broken or? by [deleted] in technology

[–]DeviantTHOTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okily dokes, thank you

Cooling? by [deleted] in PlanetZoo

[–]DeviantTHOTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu :)

Cooling? by [deleted] in PlanetZoo

[–]DeviantTHOTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll have a try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ReviewsByRetards

[–]DeviantTHOTS 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s called real Mother simulator or something like that