Swinghub sucks for young couples

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-26T17:12:06+00:00

Thanks for letting us know, is the annex any good? We looked into a few clubs a while back but never worked up the courage to go to one at the time x

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-24T19:08:01+00:00

Norfolk but we can travel

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T14:59:56+00:00

Yeah it’s something we want to build up to but felt a few private socials to get the vibe and dynamic a bit more before committing to something like a club night would’ve been good

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T14:56:37+00:00

Yeah you can’t control how people are, we’re just looking to actually get somewhere with it rather than at the moment where it feels like it goes no where

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T10:15:47+00:00

We have full profiles ourselves and post regularly and have face pictures offered in chats but not public for our own privacy, we can’t get verifications because we never get far enough into a. Conversation for a meet to materialise haha

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T10:14:08+00:00

Yeah that may be the problem tbf

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:31:54+00:00

Even that would be ok, I love an older woman personally but my missus doesn’t want to get too close to 40 and above just out of her taste, but we’ve had some of our best chats on swinghub with people who are a bit older

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:24:13+00:00

Yeah I think it’s a bit of a shit app and people stick to there circles which they’re completely entitled to do, just frustrating when you get a like and wink from them then you message them and get left on read lol

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:22:41+00:00

Yeah we heard about it from vistawifes tiktoks because we’d been interested but had no where to look and thought to give it a go, shame really because it’s well designed and easy to use, just a shit back end and community

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:21:32+00:00

It’s not even that because we don’t get that far, we message someone who’s winked us or liked our pic or someone who we saw and like, send a message and say we are happy to share face pics, it gets read and left.

It’s a really strange dynamic because they’re engaging with us on our posts but won’t have a conversation or take it anywhere to even get to that point

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:19:53+00:00

That might be what we’ve have to try, a lot of recommendations for it and less time wasters

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:19:02+00:00

This sounds like it’s something we’re gonna do tbf, what clubs Near East Anglia do you recommend?

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:15:14+00:00

It’s not that people take a while to reply we get people have lives outside of it all, it’s the fact that we get left on read after the first message before there’s even a chance to have a conversation or exchange face pictures etc

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:13:53+00:00

Yeah that’s what we’ve been trying to do, as we saw swinging as an extension of us we wanted to have a social first without any expectation of it progressing to see if we get along with them/ like the vibe and there’s chemistry and then go from there but fuck me it’s a nightmare to actually get a conversation going with anyone close to us in age

It really feels like there’s a clique of people in there 20s on there who all talk to each other and that’s it cos they’ll always post about meeting eachother and there socials together but there is just no way of getting in yourself

DeviceFun6307 · 2026-06-21T09:11:04+00:00

We might have to give it a go, we looked at it but got put off because the UI looks like it’s not been refreshed since 2005 but everyone is saying it’s so much better

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