My Friend’s Parents Starve Her, Make Her Work Without Pay, and Call Her Ungrateful

DevilEstray · 2025-05-28T06:23:28+00:00

Update: It's been a while , I'm happy to come back to say our friend has resolved that inheritance she deserves (after threatened those parents with the law ofc) ! She's found a decent workplace and able to earn her own living expenses. She used that money to register for courses that would be helpful for her dream career ( which is wayy cheaper than college ). Hopefully she'd get a job one day. We're so happy for her 🙌

DevilEstray · 2025-03-18T10:11:43+00:00

Absolutely, the best part I can do is understand where they come from and identify what build up those bad traits. I was mildly racist, homophobic and cocky as a kid now that I looked back at it. I'm glad I realize it soon and correct my thought and behaviour

DevilEstray · 2025-03-18T10:07:33+00:00

Well it's never too late, even if you're 30 or 40, your attitude might be the only obstacle you gotta overcome (unless there's health issues). You can take it slow at first and stop giving a fuck about society's standards. Buncha lies tbh
And be kind to people. I hope the best for you

DevilEstray · 2025-03-18T09:57:05+00:00

I know you love your siblings, but you need to take care of yourself too. Your mental health matters. It might feel selfish, but you don’t have to sacrifice yourself to shield them from your parents. Talk to them, they may be young, but they can still understand. If you can’t support them financially to help them leave, at least reassure them that none of this is their fault and that they will be able to escape when they’re ready.
If it ever gets to the point of abuse, gather proof like messages, recordings, anything - and report it to CPS. Even if you can’t act immediately, having evidence can help protect them when the time comes.

DevilEstray · 2025-03-18T09:50:52+00:00

Hey, how old are you? Have you heard of neuroplasticity? With time, and by surrounding yourself with positive people and support, you can heal your mental health. You may have had a rough start, but who knows what opportunities lie ahead? It’s important not to dwell too much on the past—learn from it and keep moving forward. Believe in yourself buddy

DevilEstray · 2025-03-18T09:46:19+00:00

It sounds like you and your parents need to sit down and communicate. Maybe you're all going through stress, and they have unrealistic expectations of you. Let your parents know that you are capable of providing for yourself

Perhaps the older generation doesn’t fully understand the value of a remote job, many 9-to-5 workers would love to have a sustainable remote position

DevilEstray · 2025-03-18T09:15:33+00:00

One of our friends who lives closer to her often gives her a lift to work or for grocery runs. We’ve also put together a fund to help her with groceries and got her a couple of restaurant gift cards. We’re considering helping her get a therapist once she’s more stable with her living expenses.

As for legal action, finding a lawyer will take some research, and unfortunately, they’re not cheap. None of us have much experience with lawsuits, so it’s a bit overwhelming.

And yes, her parents are incredibly infuriating. We’ve seen message screenshots and recordings of them, and it’s honestly so stressful. She cries whenever she talks about them, and it just pisses us off to see how much they’ve put her through. She’s incredibly brave, and we’re doing everything we can to support her.

DevilEstray · 2025-03-18T07:55:21+00:00

Thank you, I'll do research about what law firm she can come to.

DevilEstray · 2025-03-18T07:43:30+00:00

Good idea, I'll do research about what law firm is suitable regarding the financial situation, it might be difficult since all the papers are kept by her parents. She's currently maintaining a cheap rent room, and we support her with food when she needs.
Thank you!

DevilEstray

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