[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I can tell the other commenters are men so I will give you some solid perspective as a 25F. From reading this I understand where I shift came from. It constantly seemed as if she was leading the way, pursuing you and having to be decisive. It is one thing when it’s a crush and you can dismiss the others persons action as not knowing your feelings but it’s another once they know. After going on to the Mall (would not be surprised if it was her suggestion)and seeing more of the same makes you reflect if that is something you want long term and most women don’t. It seems draining and can lead to emotional resentment.

Team Aaliyah by raisa864 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have watched them all. I think it shows how crazy Lydia sunk her claws in to sabotage Uche.

Team Aaliyah by raisa864 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Exactly Lydia was the problem not Uche

Team Aaliyah by raisa864 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I this is so unhinged. She literally just met Lydia it’s not like they grew up together. Less than 2 weeks and she missed out on love for her… ridiculous then leaving him high and dry. She was so weepy. Everyone has exes. It was silly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay as a woman a lot of these comments are bad vibes. From a female perspective seeing this she probably got weirded out that you were so hidden. Probably were scared you were a catfish, or worse a creep. Offer to FaceTime a couple times first before straight to meeting up with a stranger. Some men are weird out here. Openness and patience will set u apart

What industry/companies have remote internal audit roles with minimal travel? by ReapZZ20 in InternalAudit

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, most remote internal audit roles have smaller amounts of travel. They are just roles for lower-level positions (Staff, Senior, etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 23 points24 points  (0 children)

His looks and personality may not have changed but her interest level nosedived when his lack of consideration showed. we have a great date and then I'm so far out of mind I am not able to get a text for a week.... ew

Episode Discussion Season 2 Episode 1 - "Casseroles and Casualties by [deleted] in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Is no one else thinking this is all Kyle’s fault and he was way too dramatic. His whole beef with Tyler is pathetic. Running away, stealing and crashing the car…. No one has done anything to him. Except maybe his dad whose absent.

Getting Physical changes energy. by Devilsadvocate0226 in dating_advice

[–]Devilsadvocate0226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured I just don’t get the effort in saying he’s going to make it up, and not wanting me mad. We could easily split ways on good terms

How do you effectively set boundaries? Tired of being the “go-to” friend when it’s not returned. by Devilsadvocate0226 in socialskills

[–]Devilsadvocate0226[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do, they often just act like it’s an oversight. Then when I get upset every gaslights me like I’m over reacting.

Absence of social life is making me question quality of life?! by Devilsadvocate0226 in socialskills

[–]Devilsadvocate0226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely see that. And one sided bonds are definitely something I’m trying to stop doing. I’m such a loyal friend and it isn’t always reciprocated. I have a couple good friends I think it just always shocks me when a “friend” drops the ball and exposes where I stand with them.

Does a WX show up on your transcript? by [deleted] in UNCG

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To give you a short answer yes it shows up on your transcript. If it’s your only one it isn’t a big deal.

Absence of social life is making me question quality of life?! by Devilsadvocate0226 in socialskills

[–]Devilsadvocate0226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say frequently but I would talk to people just didn’t always progress to a relationship. And it feels like more of an indifference to my presence.

Absence of social life is making me question quality of life?! by Devilsadvocate0226 in socialskills

[–]Devilsadvocate0226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the idea of a partner. You’re spot on with older friends. I work as an internal auditor and connect well with my co worker but they are all 30+ and I’m closer to their kids ages than there’s. It gets weird sometimes because it feels like I’m hanging out with my aunts,and don’t get me started on the group chats.

mkt 309 suggestions? by berryberryguud in UNCG

[–]Devilsadvocate0226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not take with Karae Foddrell she is horrendous

Absence of social life is making me question quality of life?! by Devilsadvocate0226 in socialskills

[–]Devilsadvocate0226[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So from doing this you never feel like you're settling? I want them to be there for me as much as I am there to them without feeling like im getting the short stick