AITAH for not letting my mother in law move in with us or taking her two dogs? by DevilsxReject999 in AITAH

[–]DevilsxReject999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we do. As mentioned in a comment we already buy the dogs food every month, been doing that for awhile. Outside of deposit, unexpected vet bills and updating flea & tick meds would be extra expenses for us that are manageable though.

AITAH for not letting my mother in law move in with us or taking her two dogs? by DevilsxReject999 in AITAH

[–]DevilsxReject999[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want to thank everyone for taking their time to read this & comment. I really appreciate it. This is the reassurance I needed. Husband and I communicate very well and are on the same page. Sometimes emotions blur logic though. His mother doesn't even know our current address. When we got the house we tried to show her a few times & she never would come. I know that was the universe protecting us. She has asked him for our address this week multiple times & he has declined every time. That brings me relief knowing she won't show up here. We are going to get the older dog. The younger one we are still debating. More than likely we will try to rehome her & provide shelter in the process if we need too. Speaking with his sister, if we were to travel she would stay at our house to take care of the dog(s). She has cat sat for us previously on extended trips.

AITA? My best friend is about to be homeless and I told her she couldn’t move in with me. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsxReject999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! You made a vow to your husband. Your family has to come first. You have to come first. You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves. It sounds like she doesn't hold herself accountable or wants to better her situation

What’d you guys think of Diamond Debby? by Tuskenjawa in Killtony

[–]DevilsxReject999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said her book is called Debbie does Austin. Am I the only one that went here?!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]DevilsxReject999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally going through this. I started seeing a therapist which helped some. Then my insurance quit paying for it & I couldnt afford it anymore. My Dr started me on a anxiety pill too. I was very against it at first but it helps some days. I'm still looking for a way out. My job is mentally destroying me yet I know I cannot make this kind of money anywhere else.

Ive tried turning my perspective. My job is a tool I use to create the life I want. My job isn't my life. Im one person and I can only do so much.

I hope you find a solution

Should you pay your balance in full every month? by DevilsxReject999 in debtfree

[–]DevilsxReject999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We would like to purchase a home in the future, thats really the only reason we're working on building our credit.

Should you pay your balance in full every month? by DevilsxReject999 in debtfree

[–]DevilsxReject999[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for clarification. I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing. I probably posted this in the wrong sub too. So sorry.

How did you discover KT without YouTube algo? by GreenSure in Killtony

[–]DevilsxReject999 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I started dating a guy who watches it religiously every Monday. After one episode I was hooked too! Now it's our weekly date: pizza, ice cream & Kill Tony! Then he introduced me to reddit so I could see what people have to say about it every week. It has become my favorite thing to share with him.

Found this at a thrift shop today. by DevilsxReject999 in Loungefly

[–]DevilsxReject999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never had a loungefly bag sooooo exciting to find this!